"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about a classmate, and a small mall sarge.

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Question about a classmate,

ya...I think i may have oneitis, just cant get this girl out of my mind(is that oneitis?), she has the cutest voice. Heres my deal:

we sit in the last row of the class room. She gave me a look today, i waited for her to leave ahead of me, she held the door for me and gave me a big smile, and slowed herself so i could talk to her. I made small talk about class, it wasnt that great,she giggled once but didnt really carry much convo.( she doesnt speak english very well). Heres where i need your help: We were walkin in the same direction and she actually started to lag behind like we were going in the wrong direction, I continued out the hall and was walking away and looking back and talking to her at the same time. I didnt even say bye. From a third person view, it would look like i was the one who wasnt that interested.

Now... Should I be a lil distant to perhaps raise IL? or just keep playing the game. I have to walk behind/past her to get to my seat i was gonna tap her on the shoulder and wave when i saw her next class. Is it too soon for that kinda kino?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd tap her on the shoulder and ask 'how are you doing?'

If that's kino...I just reliezed that I do a crazy amount of tapping/poking to say hello, WICKED!
 
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