Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Question aabout imbedded commands

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Question about imbedded commands

i'm still in the early phase of studying SS, and was wondering if you can put commands into sentences when talking about yourself? example:

(talking about the beach)

I love the beach, everytime i think about the beach i FEEL VERY RELAXED even to the point where i just LET EVERYTHING GO and BECOME FASCINATED with the surroundings, do you ever FEEL THAT WAY?

or does it have to be:

I love the beach, a person can FEEL VERY RELAXED thinking about the beach even the point where they just LET EVERYTHING GO and BECOME FASCINATED with their surroundings, do you ever FEEL THAT WAY?

thanks in advance to those who answer my question (vronski?)...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HuuBinh

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you definately can, you don't have to have the wp "a person can" bc in order for her to understand what your saying, she has to actually experience all those feelings of relaxation and fascination despite the wp.
 

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yeah, id doesnt really make a difference as long as she experiences all of those.

You might even be able to use the "I" as an anchor to yourself.


Overall though, not that it even makes much of a difference, when telling a story people want to "connect" to the character in the story.

Telling it from first person, they dont fully dive into the story.

Try something like "my friend *chicks name* thinks...bla blah blah"

That way you can reffer to the chick name as "she/her" and the chick listening connects to the story better.

also, its a subtle way of saying that you know other chicks besides her, play on the jealousy factor a bit.
 

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Hmmm

The Embedded Commands In and of itself isn't going to drastically make a bit of a difference unless you are combining it with other thought patterns. You might also want to make certain the commands are congruent with the context or frame you find yourself in. The Subconscious is bombarded with an incredible number of suggestions as we speak.. Your Subconscious will take in reference all the possible meanings.. and IF he is following the specific train of thought THEN the possibility of ACTing on the commands will manifest. Since it is working for you... the suggestion already reached deep enough for it to Believe Embedded Commands Are All You Need.
 
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