"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gomorg

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Here's my problem there is a girl I like whom I called asked to go out one night. We had fun our bodies were rubbing against each other when we sat and she started leaning on me. We both had fun she laughed at my jokes and everything seemed like it went great.
Then I dropped her off and felt I should kiss her but she got out of the vehicle and then kind of hesitated and told me to call her during the weekend and we would go out again. So I called her and she said she was busy but would call me back later that night but she didn't and still hasn't called the next day. Anyways I need advice do I call her again and ask her out or continue to wait?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Triple T

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wait...its only been a day.

Shes probally busy with her life..you should be busy with yours too.
 

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I used to be the same way as you, girls do not just reply right away(unless you have built up some attraction, or you are exclusively dating[and one date does not qualify for that]) You have to wait and get on with your life while you do so, get a hobby or pay more attention to your current one. The idea is that
if you have enough to wondering why the girl is not calling, you must not be busy enough.
 

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Alright thanks for the advice I'm a RAFC so still have a lot to learn but I shall focus on things that don't cause my heart stress and just let the chips fall where they may. Just a side note if she fails to call within a week or so should I just move on?
 

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Gomorg said:
Alright thanks for the advice I'm a RAFC so still have a lot to learn but I shall focus on things that don't cause my heart stress and just let the chips fall where they may. Just a side note if she fails to call within a week or so should I just move on?
Don't move on, not yet anyways.

Give her one more call in a weeks time, and if shes still busy or doesn't setup a future date, then forget about her, because shes wasting your time.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think she actually went on vacation for a week or two lol.
 
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