"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quarter life crisis....New Career!......Suggestions

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Wiesman44 said:
Well, if that is indeed correct, i won't even bother applying for BPA. While I've never committed any crimes or done any drugs besides experimental use a few times, they can definitely figure out some ways to DQ me, as I am not perfect. I've done my fair share of stupid sh#t.

SO if you are right, and they do a full BI, worse than PD, then I won't even bother applying.
Well I'm simplifying the process but it is a full-field federal background investigation. I can't predict what your BI will turn up or how it'd turn out, but what I can say is if they so choose they can DQ you for the most minor of things. Some examples are, having even one unpaid account on your credit report (this can easily be rectified by paying it in full though), medical records are a biggie (visiting a psychologist could be a DQ), past employment (an employer could say any lie about your work perfromance and it could DQ you), a DUI could be a DQ, an honest error of admission of the background questionaire form can be a DQ, jealous associates can paint you as a bad candidate, and the examples are almost endless. And they go back at least 10 years. The worse part is a DQ in the BP investigation usually means a DQ if you try to apply for other federal law enforcement agencies.

Having said all that, I couldn't say if they would pass you or not based on your BI. That's where I was saying it's BS politics. It's all subjectively interpreted. Women and so-called "minorities" are given a preferential view. It's ridiculous how they'll overlook or not DQ certain people with all kinds of stuff in the BI yet DQ others just over basically nothing because of some reverse-discrimination agenda.

But you never know sometimes it's luck. It depends somewhat on who your investigator is, who is your initial BI reviewer, and just having associates at the time who say mostly good things about you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I just applied for Border Patrol. Set my test date for late March, but thinking about switching it back to January. Still not 100% sure if I want to do BP or corrections, but I want to get the ball rolling quicker.

Besides the fact that I can bench about 325 lbs, I am HORRIBLY out of shape in the running department. I can run a mile in about 8 mins and am completely out of breathe, hehe.
 

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whatever the cost is dont join the military. Do some self seeking and some deep questioning... You have to look things very deep and find out what you are good at. Do the things that only make you happy.
 

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I am not going to join the military. Border Patrol or Corrections. I am already in the NYPD process, but they have a minor hiring freeze, and I do not want to live in NYC
 
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