"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Quarter life crisis....New Career!......Suggestions

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Wiesman44 said:
Well, if that is indeed correct, i won't even bother applying for BPA. While I've never committed any crimes or done any drugs besides experimental use a few times, they can definitely figure out some ways to DQ me, as I am not perfect. I've done my fair share of stupid sh#t.

SO if you are right, and they do a full BI, worse than PD, then I won't even bother applying.
Well I'm simplifying the process but it is a full-field federal background investigation. I can't predict what your BI will turn up or how it'd turn out, but what I can say is if they so choose they can DQ you for the most minor of things. Some examples are, having even one unpaid account on your credit report (this can easily be rectified by paying it in full though), medical records are a biggie (visiting a psychologist could be a DQ), past employment (an employer could say any lie about your work perfromance and it could DQ you), a DUI could be a DQ, an honest error of admission of the background questionaire form can be a DQ, jealous associates can paint you as a bad candidate, and the examples are almost endless. And they go back at least 10 years. The worse part is a DQ in the BP investigation usually means a DQ if you try to apply for other federal law enforcement agencies.

Having said all that, I couldn't say if they would pass you or not based on your BI. That's where I was saying it's BS politics. It's all subjectively interpreted. Women and so-called "minorities" are given a preferential view. It's ridiculous how they'll overlook or not DQ certain people with all kinds of stuff in the BI yet DQ others just over basically nothing because of some reverse-discrimination agenda.

But you never know sometimes it's luck. It depends somewhat on who your investigator is, who is your initial BI reviewer, and just having associates at the time who say mostly good things about you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I just applied for Border Patrol. Set my test date for late March, but thinking about switching it back to January. Still not 100% sure if I want to do BP or corrections, but I want to get the ball rolling quicker.

Besides the fact that I can bench about 325 lbs, I am HORRIBLY out of shape in the running department. I can run a mile in about 8 mins and am completely out of breathe, hehe.
 

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whatever the cost is dont join the military. Do some self seeking and some deep questioning... You have to look things very deep and find out what you are good at. Do the things that only make you happy.
 

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I am not going to join the military. Border Patrol or Corrections. I am already in the NYPD process, but they have a minor hiring freeze, and I do not want to live in NYC
 
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