Quantity is Not a Substitute for Quality

[Nexus Polaris]

So I've become fairly adept at getting phone numbers and going out on random dates with new girls. I get on average about a number or two a week which is great considering my former average of about 0-1 a year.

But I've found that I don't generally feel any better about myself or my success as most of these girls I'm not really into. They're not unattractive. They're generally between HB5 and HB7.

But it's just not good enough. I want the HB8+.

I don't even have any interest in f*closing most of these girls because I'm not that into them. It sucks.

Yet I still seem stupidly intimidated by the HB8+ bracket.

I'm not even sure why I'm posting this. I don't know if I was just looking to vent or looking for advice or what.

Any comments are welcome.

 

[Bussey]

You need to crawl before you walk... Walk before you run...
You're comfortable with average now. You've learned to walk.
Now you need to run, again its about building up to it. It won't happen overnight... but it will happen in the same way you built yourself to get those numbers a week.

Same process, higher target.

 

[WaRpEd]

Everyone needs a vent man, and were all brothers here.

If you WANT a HB8+ then you've got to do what you've got to do. Hesitation should not exist, and if you feel it growing inside of you, close your eyes take a deep breath and destroy the hesitation, Replace it with happy. You took the steps to get to where you are now. Why are you questioning yourself NOW that you've got a decent sized ball and it's rolling at a modest pace? Keep it rolling, don't let an HB change your path just because you rank her higher, because she is just human, just like these other girls of yours, just like you, just like the rest of us.

NO REGRETS! You've made it this far, quit slowing down your own progress!
-WaRpEd

 

[BustedKnucks]

In my opinion, a HB7 with a good face is comparable to an HB8.

That's of course, according to the ranking system I have developed inside my head, and might not translate the same way for you, but basically, if you can hit HB7s consistently, HB8s are not out of your reach.

Once you bag your first HB8, you'll see the kind of man you are, an ambitious one, and that should boost your confidence for the HB9 next time.