"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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quality vs. quantity?

Quality or Quantity?

  • Quality

    Votes: 38 86.4%
  • Quantity

    Votes: 4 9.1%
  • Undecided

    Votes: 2 4.5%

  • Total voters
    44

shagnscoob

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it seems like one of the eventual effects of being a DJ is that an awesome amount of women are attracted to you, leaving you with a wide choice of HB8's 9's and hopefully a few 10's.

Now i was thinking earlier, theres one HB10 that i thought i had a chance with and i might still, but then i think about the various HB8's and HB9's that i could also mess around with, relationship free.

now what is your viewpoint on this? do you prefer to go for that 1 girl that really catches your fancy, regardless of how much of a pain in the ass it will be / negative personality traits (shes an attention wh*re or something)? or do you prefer to get action from more women of various different 'levels' of attractiveness (physically and personality-wise)?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JasonR

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Personally, i would only date girls i find worthy of me. So Quality is number 1.

Having said that, i would also date a LOT of these girls, so Quantity too.


How about a large amount of quality girls?
 

00Kevin

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would you rather have bread and water every day or steak once a year for the rest of your life?

sometimes i think quantity is the way to go. but I'm stuck on steak.
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by JasonR
Personally, i would only date girls i find worthy of me. So Quality is number 1.

Having said that, i would also date a LOT of these girls, so Quantity too.


How about a large amount of quality girls?
well if your in HS like i am, its VERY hard to find quality girls. theres only 1 girl id consider "dating" at my school, 1. not to say im picky as hell or anything, theres like, maybe 10 good looking girls, as in HB7+. quality-wise id only go for an 9+ but either way, none of those 10 girls have very good personalities (some are dumb, my current one-itis is an attention hore i think and somethings totally changed since the last time we went on a date... for the worse, and the others just dont interest me at all).

basically what im saying is, some people really have to choose one or the other, in my case i can try to get that one quality girl i like, or i can just say screw it, and go for the many girls that have already implied stuff, or i can tell stuff would happen with...

thats why im wondering, what would you choose, if you were damned to have one or the other?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JasonR

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
well if your in HS like i am, its VERY hard to find quality girls. theres only 1 girl id consider "dating" at my school, 1. not to say im picky as hell or anything, theres like, maybe 10 good looking girls, as in HB7+. quality-wise id only go for an 9+ but either way, none of those 10 girls have very good personalities (some are dumb, my current one-itis is an attention hore i think and somethings totally changed since the last time we went on a date... for the worse, and the others just dont interest me at all).

basically what im saying is, some people really have to choose one or the other, in my case i can try to get that one quality girl i like, or i can just say screw it, and go for the many girls that have already implied stuff, or i can tell stuff would happen with...

thats why im wondering, what would you choose, if you were damned to have one or the other?

you dont have coffee shops, malls, mcdonalds, parks or anything like that where you live?

you dont have to hit on girls from your HS.
 

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The more girls you sarge, socialize, and flirt with, the higher and more skilled you are at attraction and social calibration.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Trust me, once you get married it's ALL quantitiy. You will wish you had more expereinces with more women when you were single (no matter how many girls you've done) and you will never have sex with your wife in the frequency you think you will before you get married.

With the exception of the truly religious, try to think of a single man who says sexual frequency has increased since he got married. And even the religious guy will complain about this after the first year of marriage.

Quantity, it's ALL quantity.
 

Lost In Translation

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i voted for :

Quantity

i like having lots of women on the hook

all the HB9's i meet are living on a fantasy island

they like to try and waste my time


i am happy pimpin' HB7's - 8's


these days i am changing the focus of my life from HO's to $$$

so quantity is fine

i just keep the turner of new chicks coming in and all is well :D



Lost In Translation

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“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

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“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “
 

shagnscoob

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Originally posted by JasonR
you dont have coffee shops, malls, mcdonalds, parks or anything like that where you live?

you dont have to hit on girls from your HS.
well they do, im just saying that its alot easier to pick up hot chicks if your school is loaded with them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tha Realnezz

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I stopped looking for "Nice-girls" cuz they don't exist.

There are women who know their place and recognize their limitations.From my experience the "air-head" is always a better choice in the long-run than an intellectual chic.

I don't look for a woman to lick my wounds or give me advise.That's what I have freinds for.


"My hoes is hoes"=Tha Realnezz.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
I stopped looking for "Nice-girls" cuz they don't exist.

There are women who know their place and recognize their limitations.From my experience the "air-head" is always a better choice in the long-run than an intellectual chic.

I don't look for a woman to lick my wounds or give me advise.That's what I have freinds for.


"My hoes is hoes"=Tha Realnezz.

I agree with you about the air-heads. the good thing about air-heads is that they tend to be more womanly then the educated university chick. Most women with high educations are usless feminist trash.
 
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