“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quality vs Quantity

princelydeeds

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In my younger days I was a quantity over quality guy. In my mid 20's I became a quality over quantity guy. When I switched to sheer quality I got laid a lot less. Now Im somewhere in between. I don't screw skanks or fat broads, but Im not obsessed with the hottest chick in the club anymore. I actually prefer the hb7-8's I think they are a lot easier to deal with on a day to day basis.

I still screw a lot of chicks that I would never think about dating seriously. I find these chicks do alot to impress me, ie. cooking cleaning, taking me out, and even the sex they work their butts off to see that im impressed.

So the question is quality or quantity?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think it all boils down to preference at the time...if you just want a good ****, its going to be quantity over quality. If you want a relationship that is somewhat meaningful at least, it will be quality over quantity.
 

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Good subject. I've always preferred quality but unfortunatley it means I get laid a lot less. There's also been some times where I've settled for something only later to really regret it.

I remember once last year starting to make out with this one girl (an acquaintance of mine) who basically called me up out of the blue and asked me to come over and screw her. She even looked my number up in the phone book to do it. I stopped in the middle of the make out session b/c I thought she was too fat. Yeech. Boy was that an awkward situation. I still get ashamed of myself when I see her since she's like a 5. I guess desperation makes you do stupid sh*t like that. :rolleyes:
 

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Quality or quantity? I'll take whatever the f*ck I can. I'm going to get laid a lot less either way. Some of us weren't blessed by God with attractive qualities that women can't resist. For me there are two categories of women: acceptable and not acceptable. Unless you're deformed, morbidly obese, or older than my mom, you'll probably fall into the "acceptable."

It makes me sick when you "beautiful people" start b1tching about your little "problems" that most of us would friggin LOVE to have as problems. "If I choose quality I'll get laid a lot less..." Shut the f*ck up and be lucky you get laid at all.
 

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Originally posted by drZaius09
Quality or quantity? I'll take whatever the f*ck I can. I'm going to get laid a lot less either way. Some of us weren't blessed by God with attractive qualities that women can't resist. For me there are two categories of women: acceptable and not acceptable. Unless you're deformed, morbidly obese, or older than my mom, you'll probably fall into the "acceptable."

It makes me sick when you "beautiful people" start b1tching about your little "problems" that most of us would friggin LOVE to have as problems. "If I choose quality I'll get laid a lot less..." Shut the f*ck up and be lucky you get laid at all.
Now, tell us how you REALLY feel.
 

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Typically I go with Quality over Quantity. I like to keep my track record as clean and nice as possible. Recently I was on vacation in the Caribbean (Carnival Cruise lines) and once again Quality won out. I had good numbers ,I got laid 5 times in 7 days by five different girlswhich isn't high high numbers but concidering what these girls looked like, I prefer the quality of the five that I got with over the irrelevant number of girls that I turned down.

Getting lots of girls is nice i guess but there's something about scoring with a better looking variety of girl that gets me more excited then shacking up with an fugly girl(s).
 

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Quality for relationships!!!

Quanity for sex!!!!! ***** is *****!!! Its all pink in the middle!!!!
 

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Do you think banging fugly girls has a positive or negative effect on your social proof?

the case for negative:
Fu**ing whatever girl comes your way can be seen as desperate. Maybe some of the very attractive girls will ignore you if they've seen you lower your standards.

the case for positive:
I think fugly girls can only be good for your social proof if otherwise you'd be getting nothing.
 

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PRMoon, that is some serious macking. Carnival Cruise lines, huh? I thought those things were just a bunch of retired people. Guess not. Damn. And you were turning ones down? And this was not "high numbers" for you? You didn't get rejected once? Give us the details, dude. I need to learn some of those skills. That's amazing. 5 chicks in 7 days.:eek:
 

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I go with quality..when I used to be into quantity, I always regreted bangin ugly chicks..grossed me out..

bt if I can get a quantity of HB's..I'd go with quantity of quality
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Quality, definitely quality, until you start throwing back the beers :D But the next morning quantity didn't seem so good anymore:eek:
 

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OF COURSE QUALITY...

IF YOU ARE A MAN WHO PREFERS QUANTITY OVER QUALITY.... THEN YOU ARE LETTING GIRLS RUN YOUR LIFE......

GIRLS ARENT SUPPOSED TO BE YOUR LIFE!!..... THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO ENHANCE YOUR LIFE...!!!

IF YOU ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO "GET SOME" , AS MUCH AS YOU CAN GET, THEN YOU ARE WHAT THE GIRLS SEE AS A "PLAYER"
AND THESE "PLAYERS", IF YOU WILL, WILL OVERLOOK THE GIRL, IF SHE COMES ALONG, WHO HAS ALL THE QUALITIES AND TRAITS HE WANTS..... WHY YOU ASK??? BECAUSE THE PLAYER HAS DEVELOPED A HABIT IN GOING FROM ONE GIRL TO THE NEXT... AND TO THE NEXT... AND THEN TO THE NEXT... AND THEN ETC...
AND THEN... YEAH

MANY PEOPLE MISTAKE DON JUAN AS "PLAYERS" BUT THEY ARE REALLY NOT......
THEY DONT LAY EVERY ATTRACTIVE GIRL THAT WALKS PAST HIM
BUT THEY COULD ..... GET LAID BY EVERY ATTRACTIVE GIRL HE SEES... THIS IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A DON JUAN AND A PLAYER....

A DON JUAN DOESNT CHOOSE TO GET LAID BY EVERY GIRL .... HE IS PICKY AND ONLY CHOOSES THE GIRLS WHO DESERVES TO GET LAID BY HIM......

THUS, A DON JUAN IS MORE FOCUSED ON QUALITY THEN QUANTITY....

COULD DONT EVERY
 

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Easy buddy. A Don Juan is one who knows how to work women. If someone wants to go out anf just get laid and he's good at it, who the fvck cares. Doesnt' mean he's not a Don Juan. Maybe he is banging all 8's and 9's. So he's not a Don Juan if he is? Its all in preference man. Oh yeah what's with the CAPS dude, tone it down a notch.
 

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Yo, I skip over any posts that uses all caps because that means they tryin to be the captain of this thread...but I ain't goin down with the ship.
I remember once last year starting to make out with this one girl (an acquaintance of mine) who basically called me up out of the blue and asked me to come over and screw her. She even looked my number up in the phone book to do it. I stopped in the middle of the make out session b/c I thought she was too fat. Yeech. Boy was that an awkward situation. I still get ashamed of myself when I see her since she's like a 5. I guess desperation makes you do stupid sh*t like that.
Awesome! That had me laughin for a minute.
Quality for relationships!!!

Quanity for sex!!!!! ***** is *****!!! Its all pink in the middle!!!!
marqZAL- basically yeah...that's the way I'm going to start treating things. This to me is the most to the point about the subject.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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WHY DOES IT MATTER IF ONE PERSON WRITES IN LOWERCASE OR

CAPS.... B/C CAPS IS ANNOYING?..... WHAT IF I THOUGHT

LOWERCASE LETTERS WERE ANNOYING ...... WOULD YOU ALL CHANGE YOUR FONT TO UPPER CASE?? NO

WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN PREFERENCES AND IF YOU DONT WANT TO READ MY POST BECAUSE OF THE FONT ITS IN THEN DON'T.... I COULD CARE LESS..... I AM JUST TRYING TO CONVEY MY KNOWLEDGE OF DON JUANING TO THE PEOPLE THAT NEED HELP
... AFTER ALL THAT IS WHAT THIS SITE IS ABOUT!!! SOME PEOPLE PUT ALOT OF SMILEY FACES IN THEIR POSTS.... THAT CAN BE ANNOYING FOR SOME PEOPLE AS WELL... DO U THINK ITS RIGHT TO TELL THEM TO STOP PUTTING SMILEY FACES JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH IT.... WELL ALL ARE DIFFERENT LEARN HOW TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER AS UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS

IT IS UNJUST THAT U TREAT OTHERS POSTS DIFFERENTLY B/C OF THE FONT SIZE THEY USE... MY FONT SIZE IS NOT EVEN ENORMOUS!!!.. IT IS READIBLE AND A FITTING SIZE FOR THE HUMAN EYE FOR ANYONE BEHIND A COMPUTER MONITOR!!!

THIS IS FONT SIZE SEGREGATION AND PREJUDISM AND I WONT STAND FOR IT.... HOW DARE YOU ALL!!! THIS IS JUST LIKE TREATING SOMEBODY ELSE DIFFERENTLY... B/C THEY ARE DIFFERENT RACE OR COLOR...... EXCEPT IN THIS CASE ITS THE FONT SIZE.... THE WORLD IS FULL OF PREJUDICE AND RACIST PEOPLE.... WHY DO WE HAVE TO BRING ALL OF THAT TO THIS SITE ... WHY!!! WHY!!! JUST TELL ME WHY!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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LOL!!!
 

marqZAL

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Quanity allows you to choose from more women...so I dont see how quanity could be bad....more chicks for sex, for dates, for fun and more overall variety...I dont let chick run my life, and I have more than enough to choose from...I have options....options allows you freedom....who says u cant have a quanity of quality girls????? Or a quanity of girl who serve different purposes in your life...In my opinion why limit yourself.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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