Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Quality or Quantity?

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I see guys making posts on here about their multiple girlfriends/f*** buddies and so on and how they're all 9s or 10s. If you're living in Cali or New York City or Miami Beach sure but in Anytown, USA like where I live most women are 0-6. Then there's an occasional 7-8. 9-10 is like model, stripper, playboy, actress quality like Krista Allen hot. It's your 60 year old uncle would check her out if you brought her to a family party hot. It isn't "she has a decent ass."

So are guys making sh*t up completely on here or just exaggerating the women they sleep with?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hughman

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Most guys on here are from metropolitan areas. These areas tend to have hotter girls.

Some exaggeration is going to happen though.

Also, don't forget that every guy's 1-10 scale is different. I know girls I find hot would repulse some guys. And other girls guys find hot actively repel me.

And as for your question, quantity and quality :D
But seriously, I have standards. I'd rather have a dry spell now and again, but say every girl I've had is at worst a 7, at least an 8 for LTR. Women are a pleasant addition, not a necessity.
 

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Just keep im mind that most of the men lies.
Everybody in internet is 6'2 tall,big as a mountain and with a 5%body fat,so of course he score 1 girl a week and she is always more than a 8+.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Solomon made a thread and he rated Paris Hilton a 5. She's very HOT in my opinion.
For me she is 5 in general, and -1 if she tries to look seductive. Errr....

And you are right, standards are different. I originally come from a country which has the most beautiful chicks ever. I mean really. Like cuban girls, only in white. :) But I´m living in an other country, where the girls are unbelievable ugly. You can´t imagine! Sometimes I cry inside of me when I walk down the street. The disadvantage is that here a HB8 acts like an HB10+ in my home country, so I have a hard time here dudes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not saying to hook up with the first piece of a$$ that comes your way, but at some point as you mature and experience life and relationships more, your priorities and how you rate women changes.

For instance, when I was 20 or so, I was in a pretty rocky drama filled relationship with a woman I considered a solid 8. She was a weed smoking art major who was great in bed, and our sex was the only thing that kept us together. We had fun and it was exciting but it was far from stable..

Flash forward almost 4 years and I am with a solid 7.5, who has her own place, job, degree, super fun to spend time with, and just a great girl all around. She is liked by most and we just have an awesome thing and even better sex than the other relationship..

So I guess the point I am making is that I would take her, hands down, over a more attractive woman who brings drama, isn't sure what she wants in life, low level of self confidence, has never really had to earn anything on her own, and who overall has nothing but her looks going for her.

Like I said in time with experience some of you will realize what is important in a potential long term partner. Until then.. Good luck with everything.. but know that women also use a scale.. When they are younger the hot bad boy rates up in the 8-10 scale, but as they mature, the "great" guy, takes the spot and the jobless losers are left to pick from the fatties and used to be 10's..

Doc
 
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