Quality advice im picking up on!

[TheGambino]

This is a subject I don't read too much about on the forum.

Most women believe in karma, dreams, love stories, ''When it's destined to be, it will happen'' etc. Horoscopes! (is this the guy the horoscope wrote about? that's her irrational thought)

Look at their Facebook covers, Instagram posts about love and romance.

It's all about circumstances, emotions and feeling.

How did you meet your love of your life?
This is probably one of their favourit questions to answer, make that first meeting special with being charming. Make sure you make that good flattering, self secure impression, loving yourself and flattering her too join in the fun when you approach, then bail.

What I'm trying to say is solid advice for myself too, I've seen some nice posts from members on here on this topic. As an example, when you randomly approach or run intoo a hottie and talk to her, have a great convo, make her feel special and be mysterious a girl will remember you.

If she's highly interested you could take her number and she will meet up. On the other hand if you randomly would run intoo her somewhere else go from there with escalation or asking her out she feel it's natural. It is destined to be in her mind.

I've had situation where I had a great conversation and night a long time ago and we both went our ways, then she runs in the store where I work. She didn't know that I work there but she sees in me in clubs, I always greeted her but went my way after that.

She buys some stuff and I ask her out at the spot, she showed up, we went on a great date and we made out. Eventually she backed off (for whatever reason).

But you see the concept? She has a good feeling about me because we had a good time, she is probably half to high attracted to me and I never rushed anything with her.

She randomly runs intoo and we have the great vibe and fun we had years ago and I ask her out too share more fun. It will feel like that for her. ''Damn, we had a great time years ago, and we meet randomly and it was like it was yesterday, what a cool guy''

So I asked her out and she is set to go immediatley.

So guys, make sure when you run intoo a girl you never rushed anything with and you connected well with too take it from there. Take up on IoI's for what they are and push for escalation (in a club or bar) or a suggestion to get drinks together from there

Add any tips, advice or actual field reports on this topic to share ideas with the bros!

I know I missed chances too hook up with quite some girls because I rushed things with pushing for a date, with texting to quick after a make out session or whatever with a girl that doesn't know me that well. If I just took her number or went on my business without a number close and ran intoo her at some other point I would most likely hook up if I escalated again.

Why? It was random. Ofcourse her IL has to be high enough that she thinks (hmm if he is man enough I would f8ck him)

 

[byers90]

Yes, that's what it's always been about. Be a fun, energetic, passionate person - women can't resist that. That's why they sometimes go for complete clowns, they at least aren't afraid to put themselves on line and demonstrate some personality (no matter how silly they may seem to you or I). The worst thing you can do is be like the average guy...kinda standing around, serious, robotic stiff ****. Most women will find it difficult to form a "connection" with a man like that.

 

[sosousage]

theres a sexy chick texting me on facebook telling me we are family and we took bath together when we were <5 implying we would need bigger bath to do that now, then she send me photo of us when we were young sitting together. Should I go for it?

 

[TheGambino]

theres a sexy chick texting me on facebook telling me we are family and we took bath together when we were <5 implying we would need bigger bath to do that now, then she send me photo of us when we were young sitting together. Should I go for it?

FOR SURE.

 

[resilient]

The guys I see succeeding in dating prospects lately socially are those that are not afraid to use kino in set. They bust balls. Tease. The women feel comfortable and allow the use of his kino and he could isolate in the venue, go for the number, and plan something up if he desired to. They're comfortable with who they are and are not shy to reveal their fun outgoing personality.

The times I've felt the most confident, I was going out a ton social and didn't worry about mistakes, I took risks, let go and had fun. I'd usually hit them up later online for a date if I felt a connection.

Rejection sucks. Breakups suck. Dropped plates suck.

That can't stop us from living our lives though. We got to get out there and risk being turned down again and not take things so seriously. There will be other opportunities. The world keeps spinning. The clock never stops.