Ah, the wonders of being in a relationship. After two years of being single, (and enjoying it) I finally decided it was time for a change. But somehow, I'm getting the feeling that relationships (especially at age 18) aren't all they're cracked up to be. Or maybe it's just me. Anyways, two years ago I was a complete wuss. A chump. An AFC. Whatever you want to call it. An ass kissing, submissive, approval seeking puss. Fast forward two years into the future and you see a more confident, funnier, happier me. But after one month (exactly) of being in this relationship with her, I'm beginning to feel my inner wuss resurrecting. Help me out here guys.
A true DJ is ****y, funny, charming, unpredictable, doesn't call women all the time, doesn't make himself always available to a woman, keeps his conversations on the phone with a woman short and sweet. I've noticed a change in my interactions with women since incorporating some of these into my inner game.
But as this relationship carries on, I'm beginning to feel more and more unhappy. It's not that I'm unhappy with who I'm with, because I'm not. I'm beginning to feel more and more unhappy with how predictable I'm becoming. I find myself talking to her on the phone every day, talking about the same old same old worthless conversation. I see her about 3-4 times a week. Anymore, it feels like I have nothing interesting to talk to her about. This girl is still attracted to me, but I feel as if this spark she felt for me early in the relationship is diminishing as every day goes by. I feel like I've jumped into a relationship that I wasn't ready for, in a sense that I'm now realizing that I have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to a dating relationship.
Now, couples are supposed to spend a lot of time together, on the phone, with each other, whatever. Aren't they? I want to keep this relationship going with her, but I'm finding myself doing the same things that made my last g/f break up with me. I was just no fun anymore. Help me out guys. What qualities does the DJ boyfriend possess?
A true DJ is ****y, funny, charming, unpredictable, doesn't call women all the time, doesn't make himself always available to a woman, keeps his conversations on the phone with a woman short and sweet. I've noticed a change in my interactions with women since incorporating some of these into my inner game.
But as this relationship carries on, I'm beginning to feel more and more unhappy. It's not that I'm unhappy with who I'm with, because I'm not. I'm beginning to feel more and more unhappy with how predictable I'm becoming. I find myself talking to her on the phone every day, talking about the same old same old worthless conversation. I see her about 3-4 times a week. Anymore, it feels like I have nothing interesting to talk to her about. This girl is still attracted to me, but I feel as if this spark she felt for me early in the relationship is diminishing as every day goes by. I feel like I've jumped into a relationship that I wasn't ready for, in a sense that I'm now realizing that I have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to a dating relationship.
Now, couples are supposed to spend a lot of time together, on the phone, with each other, whatever. Aren't they? I want to keep this relationship going with her, but I'm finding myself doing the same things that made my last g/f break up with me. I was just no fun anymore. Help me out guys. What qualities does the DJ boyfriend possess?
