"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Qualities it takes to keep a long term relationship going

DasaniWater

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Hey, im wondering what are the major qualities you need to have for a long term relationship to keep going, and to keep her interested in you. I remember reading how the dj bible wasnt really about long term relationships, but if anyone knows of any great threads plz post. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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So lemme get this straight:

You come to the forums cause you're sad about your girl. She doesn't want to let you taouch her anymore and she acts cold. Then you get pissed off that the people here are trying to give you advice like: move on, and dump the b!tch. Then you go on an AFC craze and start buying her lots of useless junk like $2000 laptops, a dress, jewlery and other crap to win her affection. You get pissed off again when people say: DON'T DO THAT.

Then you make more stupid ass threads saying how everyone here is a nerd, virgins and we don't get laid and we're losers and how what you got going on with your girl... we will never understand.

Here's a link for anyone interested: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109149

Basically, you acted like a whinny little beotch and threw your own sh!t in everyone's face. Like a dirty money at the zoo.
 
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Freddy1

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DasaniWater said:
Hey, im wondering what are the major qualities you need to have for a long term relationship to keep going, and to keep her interested in you. I remember reading how the dj bible wasnt really about long term relationships, but if anyone knows of any great threads plz post. Thanks
Act unpredictible. (write a list of things to do if you have to. Be creative)
 
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