yes and no
qualifying is about compliancy and approval
to begin with having a very strong frame where she qualifys to you, eg by doing things for you or by comlying to 'hoops' you throw out.
how every should you continue this, despite her intial attration there will reach a threshold where you need to mutally comply and indicate you are prepared, if she comlys to you, to comply to her...otherwise, its too much effort for her, she has to work too hard with no reward.
a girl can qualify to you in avariety of ways, everytime you do something and see complys that is her trying to qualify to you. you effectivelt set increasingly higher standards which she has to qualify in order to pass, to gain the reward of your apporval and acceptance. eg:
you and i are gonna get married..no wait can you cook?
her: yes
excellent....wait can you clean
her: yes
great..but will you lick my nut sck right now.?
her: no
awwww too bad, at first i it thought you were adveturious
her: but i am...
prove it
her(suck on bottle)
the about illustraits my point but is somewhat stunted and fictonal.
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