"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Qualification

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Yes, qualification, not in the way you make a woman qualify as a seduction strategy, but as a way for you as a man that is discerning, figures out if a woman is worth your time. As I age, I'm less about the quick bang than I've been in the past. I am about actually enjoying a woman's company, having a good time besides sex as well.

I've always found a linkage between women who have sleep problems and neurosis. Years ago I began to use it as a gauge of just how cuckoo a chick might be and it has served me well. Women that sleep well, especially those who love to sleep I find to be much more of a pleasure in many ways.

Now there is some medical evidence.

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Social stuff, meals, entertainment. Yes the vag is certainly a focal point. This post is specifically about lack of good sleep making for an insufferable woman.

Like doing what? Most of the shyt you can do with women is social events were each of you is testing your individual market values.
I find very little outside of sex with women of much value besides raising kids or being a good help you.
Remove the vag and what is the point?
Why not just date? Spin plates.
You talking hobbies? I got solo for that or buddies.
 

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Thank you for your concern, not the point of the original post, but I understand you're trying to point out something you see as an issue for most men. At this juncture, I am spinning plates, do not have one-itis for anyone, or am allowing anyone to use me like the proverbial e-poon.
 
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