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Quagmire911

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Thursday-Extra work

Bi curls 70lbs 3x10
COC No.1 Overcrushes, holding for 5s. 1x6 each hand.
Door grabx2
Pullups 3x4

Would have done cardio but I buggered my knee running yesterday. Sucks as it was pretty much back to normal. I did get some cardio though, and that is all I will say. The knee doesn't feel to bad, should be alright in a few days. The right shoulder is still iffy at some angles as well, I may deload soon.
 

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Last week of benching as the main move, going back to military press for 3-4 weeks as of next week. I decided to max out this week, and I also decided to do a small intensity deload. IE I didn't do as many sets as usual but kept the intensity high. Haven't deloaded in a while and I don't really feel the need, so this is why I did it this way. Here it is:

Bench press 102.5kgx0-Missed it. It didn't feel particularly heavy and I knew I had it in me. I reviewed the video and on the way up my elbows flared a bit and the bar tracked towards my head, so my technique went off. I also forgot to take my shoes off. When I leave them on my feet can slide and don't feel very stable on that surface. So keeping all this in mind, I had at it for a second attempt. Here is the failed attempt:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BX0kC3WRVE0

102.5kgx1 (225.5lbs) PR-Maintained form better, so I got it. First time doing 2 plates a side. I wanted to do 225+ so as to get the American standard as well though ;) Sticking point is around 6-8" off the chest, I reckon tris are the weak link. Military pressing provides quite good overload for the tris and I will probably do close grips as a supplementary move although I am thinking of doing dips as I haven't done them in a while. In the video you will notice I lay on the bench for about 15s after it; I got tunnel vision as I was pressing through the sticking point and stayed on the bench until it went away. Just as well I didn't pass out :D Here is the video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1FxQ2mbC4o

Rows 72.5kg 2x5-These are feeling a lot better form wise. Sould have got videos, will soon.

Overhead press 50kg 2x8-Had a few more reps in me on each set, but I was just trying to prep the move for starting next week.

Standing abs 40kgx10 45kgx10-Doing these on the lat pulldown. I got a video so that people can tell me if they think I am doing them properly. Checked it against a westside/elitefts video and it looks pretty similar.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FOuDnmtt_1A

GPP-Rowing 10 minutes, last 15s all out-2310m-I have made improvement in the distance every week, and I have been in better condition afterwards every time. Good stuff.

That was all for today. Pleased with how bench is going, that was a 7.5kg improvement on my 1RM from when I last tested it. It is nearly not total s*** now.

My goals now are 3/4/5, but I suppose there are stepping stones along the way. Bench 1.5x bw will be around 270, although over 250 will be pretty cool. Squatting 2x bw will be 360 will also be decent. Deadlifting 2.5x will be 450 on the deadlift. This is based on my current bw of around 180, although I will haven't checked it in a week or two. When I get down to it I will strip of around 10lbs of fat and add 10-15lbs of muscle. 180-185 at 10% or thereabouts.

That is all for today, some cardio tommorow, will possibly put it in. Until next time...:up:

Quagmire
 

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Awesome Quag! Reading your journal gets me fired up for the next workout.

Good work on the 225.5 bench, and enjoy the tunnel vision :) I had that by the 16th rep of a 20 rep squat session last year, and it gave me a queasy feeling.

Realize that by the time you hit 3/4/5 your chest will be pretty thick. From my experience, guys can bench 225 and still have relatively flat chests but once you get up around 275-315 you're gonna have some nice pecs.

Race to 3/4/5! I got plenty of catch-up to do, and if you beat me then race to 4/5/6!!! :D

have fun with the cardio tomorrow bro.
 

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good job man
 

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Hey grats on two plates a side on bench! Too bad in the first vid that you got out of balance or you'd have it. Quite the feeling to be push two plates on the bench. Kinda like one is leaving the newbieness behind and turn into an intermediate lifter.

GL with the 3,4,5 it's my goal as well :)
 

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Nice lift buddy. Looking good!
 

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Thanks guys, appreciate it.

I did a lot of walking today so I decided that would do it and I would forego HIIT and give my CNS a break. My knee is nearly 100% again and I thought not doing burpees or whatever today would be a good thing so as it is fresh for squats tommorow. Right shoulder still twinges occasionally but is fine on benching and overhead work. So I am nearly in 100% health again which is good.

Will update tommorow,

Quagmire
 

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Wasn't feeling it today, probably should have done an intensity deload but I just did a voume deload. It isn't so much my strength wasn't there, it was mentally. I picked up a bit towards the end I suppopse. Here it is:

Squats 140kgx1 (308lbs)-(1"-2" below) 120kg felt s*** and the 140 actually felt better. I got a video but I am not going to load it right now. Maybe tomorrow. I still think the angle of my back isn't upright enough. I'll see what others think when I load it. Looking at the video I think using a box for depth was still throwing my form off a little. Will have to rectify if this is the case.

Sumo deadlifts 105kgx25 (231lbs)-This was fun, never done it before. My hips were killing me after it.

Bi curls 35kgx10 PR 40kgx8 PR-Good going I suppose, even if it is curls :p

GPP-Rowing 6 minutes-Went at a faster intensity today. Pretty much 2 minutes per 500m the whole time. Did a bit over 1500m.

So yeh I PR'ed but I didn't feel very energetic. Had to force myself towards the end on the rowing. That is all for today, until next time...

Quagmire
 

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Wow, thats alot of reps for that weight on the Sumo's...is the principle of this similar to that of the 20 rep squat? Primarily for growth!

Btw, you wouldn't think about taking any supplements to increase energy during workouts? I tried some today and they seem to give you more energy...more energy = better performance
 

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I just did it for a bit of a change to be honest. I have seen IA suggest doing 20ish reps on deads when you just aren't feeling it so I gave it a go just to switch things up.

I have seen it elsewhere, it would probably work well for growth. My legs were pumped up a lot after it.

I did buy some creatine but I can't take it. It is powdered and is just too disgusting. I usually have some caffiene before a workout and I don't really rely on supps to get the job done. That is what your conditioning is for.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
I just did it for a bit of a change to be honest. I have seen IA suggest doing 20ish reps on deads when you just aren't feeling it so I gave it a go just to switch things up.

I have seen it elsewhere, it would probably work well for growth. My legs were pumped up a lot after it.

I did buy some creatine but I can't take it. It is powdered and is just too disgusting. I usually have some caffiene before a workout and I don't really rely on supps to get the job done. That is what your conditioning is for.
What kind of creatine. If it's CEE i know how to help you get it down.
 
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I disagree mate 2.5 kg is a bigger jump than you think here. This was why I was telling you that your 1RM estimations based on what you do for 4-5 reps a while ago was a bit too optimistic tbh. You get big dimishing returns once the weight starts getting heavy. IMO at worst you were the same strength wise as last week, at best a tad stronger, but ultimately you would never know exactly unless you did the same weight as last week and compared the reps. But the BP set of 6 suggests that maybe your endurance was a little off today.
 

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dennyw said:
I disagree mate 2.5 kg is a bigger jump than you think here. This was why I was telling you that your 1RM estimations based on what you do for 4-5 reps a while ago was a bit too optimistic tbh. You get big dimishing returns once the weight starts getting heavy. IMO at worst you were the same strength wise as last week, at best a tad stronger, but ultimately you would never know exactly unless you did the same weight as last week and compared the reps. But the BP set of 6 suggests that maybe your endurance was a little off today.
You've lost me, what is this in reference too?

And welcome back MM.
 

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I think dennyw is a spambot, judging by its other posts.
 

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Here is what you do Quag. Get two small cups. Pour some kind of tasty juice in each one. But not too much, just enough for a big gulp or two. Mix CEE in one, and don't put anything in the other cup. Mix at a good speed, and after you are done mixing don't wait, drink it as fast as you can-- then drink the other cup immediately after. Basically, it's like taking a shot and you chase it down with tasty juice - ENJOY :D
 

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I'll give it a shot. See how it goes with diluting juice, low in calories.
 

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Have you tried holding a bit of water in your mouth, tipping your head back and dropping the powder straight to the back of your throat and immediately swallowing?
 

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Pun intended? :crackup:
No, but I saw it :D

I'll maybe try that as well Simon. I just hate trying to drink or eat stuff that I don't like.
 
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