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Quagmire911

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Diet is alright although it could be better.

I get in the calories and usually have 4-5 meals, so it could be better. My weight is steady in the 170-175 range which is what I want right now, so that is fine.

I decided redpoint was unnecasary at this point. Just started doing Westside so I will see how that goes...but I will probably try it out at some point.
 

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Quite a good day today, got some good work done. Made a few changes to the routine on account of shoulder rehabbing, but I am still continuing with bench work for the time being. Here it is:

Spread eagle DB situps 50kgx10x10x10 (PR)-This was good, but uncomfortable. There has got to be a better way of doing these weighted. The DB's were crushing into me the whole time-not good. I tried it with an Ez bar but that was even worse. Really need to get this sorter. I have an idea or two...

CG bench 1x92.5kg (203.5lbs)(PR)-This was a good rep, didn't stick as long as I usually do. Not sure if I would have made 95. Failed with this 3 weeks ago though, so this is good.

Speed bench 5x3 50kg-Seemed a little heavy. I was cautious of my shoulders whilst doing these, I think psychologically I was holding back a bit because of it.

One arm braced DB OH press 20kgx8x8x6-Good stuff. This is done with the non-dominant left side first, and then the numbeer of reps is mirrored with the right. This is to correct the quite large imbalance.

DB skullcrushers 12.5kg DB'sx6x5x4-This was lower than last week. However, it was further on in the routine than usual and it was Close grip day. I will see how I get on next week. I may reset back to 10kg DB's.

Cuban press 20kg 3x8-This involves a bit of external rotation and then pressing overhead. I actually was quite near failure on the last two sets. This is for shoulder rehab as well.

Shoulder dislocations 1x50-This is something I got of off intensemuscle. I will be doing it every day. Apparently I should be as good as new in a few weeks of doing these, hopefully this coupled with the strengthening will see me right. My shoulders/traps/shoulder area are very tight. The high reps gets a lot of blood into everything, which is also very beneficial for recovery.

HIIT Rowing-6 minutes-Very noticeable improvement on last week. Good stuff.

Well that is all for this week, have to run as I am going out for dinner. Not sure if I will be in on Wednesday or Thursday yet, until then...:up:

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Went in yesterday as I was drinking last night, didn't actually have to much though. Anyway this is it:

Russian twists 2x10 10kg plate (arms outstretched)-Hard on the sides.

Good mornings 110kgx1 (PR)-I have a video of this and I am not sure if I like my form. My back stays arched and everything, I think I might be using too much leg bend though. I will review this.

Box squats 90kgx7-Not as good as it could have been. Between these and the speed work, I think I am more explosive and therefore stronger with the elbows pointing down instead of back. I am doing more of a powerlifting squat now and I know that the Westsiders have the elbows down.

Speed box squats 6x2-50kg-As I said above, more explosive with the elbows down. I drift forward too much otherwise.

Deadlift work-Did 6-7 speed/form sets with 100kg for singles to get a look at form. Both conventional and sumo.

Hyperextensions 3x10 25kg-These always hurt.

Dorian row 82.5kgx8x8x8 (PR)-Not bad.

Chinups BW+12.5kgx4-Not so good because they are at the end and I am not concentrating on them.

That was all. My No.2 gripper didn't arrive yesterday or today so I am waiting on it before I do grip work. That is all for today, until next time...

Quagmire

Edit-Also did shoulder dislocations 1x50-and have been everyday. Shoulders are already clicking less, we will see how it is next week. So far so good though.
 
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Congrats on the PRs mate. :up:
 

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I've looked at your video, a Westside one, and a different one that WBA sent me a while ago. Whilst they all vary in the amount of knee bend, I would say I have been doing it too much and my back isn't going as close too horizontal as it should be. I think doing it onto blocks has sacrificed form. They aren't as sturdy as pins.

So I reckon I take of 20kg and stop squatting the thing! We shall see in a few weeks, although I will practice form until then.
 

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Came home from work today and what was waiting for me but my No.2 Captains of Crush gripper :D I ate my extra large bacon double cheeseburger and then went to work on it! Here is what I did:

COC No.2-Right hand- x0x0x1x1x1x1x1 (PR)-Took me three attempts but I closed it. Probably just not used to exerting maximum force because the no.1 is too easy now. On all the succesful attempts (3-7) I made sure to exhale whilst exerting force on the gripper. I should manage reps next weeks, although I may just do singles. Here is a video of one of the reps:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtwOG2TYw1c

Left hand-x0x0x0x0x0x0x0-Nearly there but not quite. Couple of mm's. Should have it in a few weeks.

This has been a goal of mine for a while now, so this is one more down. Now it is onward and upward to the No.3!

Here are some videos from the other day:

Dorian rows: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OayHCq7URBM
Sumo speed deadlift: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQ5OiqDPYxs
Speed deadlift: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meseTONquHg

Very happy about closing the No.2, it feels great. I may upload the good morning and squat at some point, although they are ****ty :p Apart from that, I will probably be in the gym on Monday, until then...:up:

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You FRIGGIN ba$tard. You closed it. FVCK! Congrats you jerk! I couldn't close the No. 2, I could close the No. 1 a couple good times though on each hand. Nice ring btw it distracted me from the video haha

Awesome videos, good arch on the deadlift!
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
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You FRIGGIN ba$tard. You closed it. FVCK! Congrats you jerk! I couldn't close the No. 2, I could close the No. 1 a couple good times though on each hand. Nice ring btw it distracted me from the video haha

Awesome videos, good arch on the deadlift!
Thanks my girl, oh I mean man :D

Only kidding mate! Closing the No.1 for reps first time is nothing to be sneezed at all, congrats. I have had mine a year and only 4-5 in 40-50 have managed it. Only me and my brother can close or rep it with both hands. My brother was actually very close with the No.2 and he doesn't lift weights :D Once you can do over 10 reps with the N0.1 you will be close to closing the No.2. Probably between 12-15 reps is when you will do it.

I will be getting the No.2.5 soon! 3 here we come! If you close 3 you become a certified Captain of Crush! Only a few hundred have done it!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ha ha...very funny. How do i know it's you doing it and not your girlfriend, tell her she's got strong hands for me, okay doood? :D
 

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I-tallionStallion said:
Ha ha...very funny. How do i know it's you doing it and not your girlfriend, tell her she's got strong hands for me, okay doood? :D
Will do :p
 

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Not a stellar day today. Parents have been away this week and with me being 18 I have been drinking more than usual. I have ordered some new supps, cissus/creatine included which will be here in a few days. So after tonight I am looking to be more strict with things again. I have been eating a lot of curries and burgers too so I have put on a few pounds some of which will be fat. The abs are still kinda there, but I need to start implenting a carb cutoff again and cut the alcohol back to once a week and only a moderate amount. Anway here it is:

Spread Eagle DB situps 55kgx10 (PR) 12.5kgx10x8-Note that I moved to using 12.5kg behind the head to make the exercise a lot more difficult. Having 55kg on my chest crushing me wasn't very fun.

DB bench (pasued 1-2s) 35kgx6-This was a floor DB press. I nearly lost some teeth trying to do it on the bench.
35kgx3-This was on the bench. Apparently much harder than too the floor.
30kgx3-Just started dieing...Gave up on it.

Speed bench 50kg 5x3-Not great.

One arm brace DB OH press-20kgx8x8x8 (PR)-Quite a bit better than 3 weeks ago which is good. I really need to be doing 25/27.5kgx8 though for structural balance.

Cuban press-22.5kg 3x8-This is for external rotation and shoulder health. I tried to do some skullcrushers before this but I just got sick of them and couldn't be arsed. Need to find something else to do.

Shoulder dislocations 1x50-Making improvement here. Hopefully another week or two and some cissus will see me right.

HIIT-Rowing-7.5 minutes-Noticeable improvement on last week. Was lying on a mat for a few minutes afterwards and my legs nearly cramped. All in good fun.

Then later on at home because I couldn't help myself...

COC No.2-Right hand 1x1-Noticeably easier than on Friday.
Left hand 1x1 (PR)-WTF? Couldn't close it on Friday but held it shut for a good few seconds today. My grip is f***** up. I shouldn't really have done any grip today, but it was very low volume so I should be alright for Thursday. Will be interesting to see what I can manage, although it will be after deads.

That was all I did today. Had my usual XXL bacon double cheeseburger from Burger King afterwards which was great. I also fixed my good mornings, massive difference from what I was doing. Anyone that trains alone-you owe it to yourself to video your lifts-you are guessing otherwise. Really was a night and day difference from what I did last week. No more squat/gm hybrid. A lot less leg bend and I can feel it a lot better in my hammies. The weight will also be quite a bit lower. On another note, I think I am going to sub in good mornings for pullthroughs as I have reached the maximum weight on the stack.

Well that is all for today, until next time...

Quagmire
 

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Looks strong, quagmire, well done.
 

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Practice where to look, your neck is in a bad position. You look straight ahead when you should be looking slightly down before pulling anything.
 

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Wow.. your only 18 you say? I pegged you at around 25ish.
Way to be mature for your age.. youngster.


Oh btw this old man (me haha) got his CoC#1+trainer in the mail today and can't close the #1 fully with my right hand (I can with the trainer though).

Yep Stallion, I got even more work to do to catch up then you.

These darn young kids now-a-days.. :D
 
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Was 18 on the 18th mate :D

Sounds like you aren't far off from closing the No.1, which takes things up a notch. I recommend you get the No.2 as soon as possible even if you aren't close to it, this will keep you from getting lazy which is what happened with me...I could probably have closed the thing last year. Will be getting the 2.5 soon...

Will be looking to see how your HIIT is going!

PS-DRUM, I am confident correct head position is neutral and looking forward, although I can't be arsed finding the relevant evidence although I reckon it will be in Eric C's mastering the deadlift part 1/2/3...
 

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Quite a s***** day today, probably to do with drinking 4-5 times over the last week. I have had my fun though, and will cut it back to once a week and only 6-7 units at most. I am going to take a deload next week and get a bit of physio done. Got whey/creatine/cissus through today so I am set for making a good go off it over the next few months. Anyway, here it is:

Deadlift :cuss: Attempted 150kg sumo and failed. Then did conventional 150kgx1x1. I could probably have done 155-160 conventional. Form is not good though and needs to be fixed. I don't know what the f*** has happened. I did 172.5kgx1 sumo in January and now I can't do 150kg? Something is f****** up with my legs, something in that area. My back stayed arch the whole time, but my hips shot up a lot faster than the shoulders. I am thinking maybe it is hips. Will post up a video to show-I am basically stiff legging it. Will be seeking some advice on this...I will also post the sumo video. Deadlifting has been weak ever since I did those rack deads, I think that was a big mistake. I now have a big weakpoint from the floor...

S.SLDL (light) 85kgx10x10-Quite easy, although on the second set my back started to feel it towards the end.

Good mornings 60kgx10x10-Ouch. Will post a video for critique. Felt good, just ****ty weight.

Dorian rows 82.5kgx8x8x8-Was pretty wiped. Didn't bother with chins after.

Grip training: Crushing: Captains of crush No.2-Right hand 1x3 1x2 1x1 (PR)- I think I just touched them for a 3rd although I can't be sure. Still a PR regardless.

Left hand x0 (assisted)x5x5-Couldn't close it with the left today. Did some assisted using my right hand to help a bit.

Door grabx2-For pinch grip.

Well today was pretty depressing apart from the grip training. I think I will give up weights and just train my grip, it is the only thing that actually responds to training :eek: I suppose I have to be honest and say the alcohol has f**** things up this week, but it is not the reason for my deadlift tanking 50lbs or so, everything else has at least gone up a bit. I can't actually believe bench has seen the biggest gains. I think I will post up my box squat video too, I don't think my form looks great on it, too much rocking or something. Anyway, that is all for today. Will be deloading and taking it easy next week...

Quagmire

PS-Videos: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mS21d29F5S8 -Sumo dead

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=804_OAqueKQ -Deadlift

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrG7rnNVNRQ -Good mornings

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqrAXaCQlJc Last weeks box squats, poor hip drive?
 

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Change of routine is in order?

I hear ya about the alcohol thing. I usually plan to either NOT workout the next day or workout LATER in the day (like around evening) if I went out for drinks the night before. And I usually have to down a few to even get buzzed due to the irish-dock worker tolerance I've built up. Alcohol in the system just drains all my energy away the next day.
 

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Deload. Sigh:

Pulldown abs 20kgx10 25kgx10 30kgx10-Worked out how to do them. Well actually I saw someone else doing them (shock!) and got him to show me his method.

Bench-Worked up to 1x80kg-Left shoulder felt iffy. Was affecting form I think.

Braced One arm OH press-15kg 2x8

CG reverse grip bench 40kg 2x8-Used quite a light weight as it is my first time properly doing them and it was a deload. Still felt it a bit in my tri's.

DB bench 20kg 2x8-I was having a hard time stabilizing this which is pretty sad. Again, I think it was my shoulders.

That was it for the upper stuff. Now onto more impotant things. Well I was sick of my deadlift last week as can be seen above. I decided to post the video and have Mark Rippetoe take a look at it. Turns out I wasn't doing it correctly. Hips were to low and shoulders weren't over the bar. The "jerk" motion at the start was my body getting into the correct position to pull. Whilst it looks almost like I stiff leg it, this is correct for my biomechanics. Rippetoe says he only figured out the shoulder thing 8 months ago or so, and that he can't find it in any weightlifting literature. Indeed Westside advocate something about keeping the shoulders behind the bar, which is confusing-because you can't. So I did some form work today and here it is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1wfLGWfIJVw -This was 100kgx1. I thought this looked pretty on the money.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aVLrvGyLlA -This was 140kgx1. I thought this was better than last week, but my hips still started maybe a touch low as there is maybe small jerk before I lift. I will be getting Rippetoe to check these two though. But the 100kg above looks good to me, and this wasn't far off. Might be alright though.

I have also been having a lot of issues with the squat for a long time as those who read this will know. So I am overhauling my squat. I switched to low bar today which I actually managed to get to work with 200+ on my back. Before it would be too painful. I seemed quite a bit tighter which was great and my back stayed rigid. Still needs work but I reckon it was better than last week. I am also looking down to get hip drive. I am basing it on Mark Rippetoe literature. I will need to get starting strength 2nd edition when I can afford it. More to come on this squat business, it is a work in progress...


Went to the physio on Friday and he said my back was in pretty good condition but was just a little tight. He loosened it up a bit and got rid of some noughts. He said I can continue benching as long as my shoulders don't hurt, but what is happening is the ligaments or tendons are scraping of the bone as everything is a little tight. I told him I was doing shoulder dislocations and he said they were good. So hopefully the problem will be alright soon. Indeed I feel my right shoulder is getting there, but now my left seems to be having more trouble-perhaps because it is being used more and the right isn't compensating? Who knows. I will see how things go. If I don't bench for a month or two and do OH press for a while, Poliquin says my bench won't plummet, and it would benefit things in the long run anyway. So I will see how I get on.

I am now on about 4g of cissus a day and my right knee that twinges occasionally I didn't feel at all today which is good. I can't take the creatine as it is too disgusting so I am waiting till I can put £30 towards a capping kit, can't afford it this week though. I have also been going for salt baths to aid in recovery which feel great, very relaxing and I recommend it. Just been using herbal salts but will be trying Epsom salts when I can.

Well that is it for today. Maybe went a touch heavy on the deads but it is alright. I will go lighter on Thursday and my CNS will still have some time off. Anyway, until next time...:up:

Quagmire

PS-Kudos to DRUM, you are actually meant to look slightly down on the deadlift. Something like 5-6 feet infront of you. Same with the squat.
 
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