I-tallionStallion
Master Don Juan
You bet...i look better everyday. That morning cardio kicks a$$
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Assuming I didn't progressMad Manic said:If you got 82.5 kg x 4 then 85 kg x 2 sounds about right to me.
MM
I disagree mate 2.5 kg is a bigger jump than you think here. This was why I was telling you that your 1RM estimations based on what you do for 4-5 reps a while ago was a bit too optimistic tbh. You get big dimishing returns once the weight starts getting heavy. IMO at worst you were the same strength wise as last week, at best a tad stronger, but ultimately you would never know exactly unless you did the same weight as last week and compared the reps. But the BP set of 6 suggests that maybe your endurance was a little off today.Quagmire911 said:Assuming I didn't progress![]()
Which I should have :cuss:
Quagmire911 said:Monday
Hmmm. Had a bit of a piss day today. I got called in to the ****ty warehouse and did a 6 hour shift and then after that I had to do the equivalent of 25 minutes walking on incline to get to the gym. Today was the first day that I have had to bench whilst doing the labour job and I don't think the two went hand in hand. I have done it twice on lower day and it seemed fine but I think it drains the upper body a bit. My tri's/shoulders were feeling a bit funny. Anyway, here it is:
CG bench 85kgx2-I warmed up to 75kgx1 and it felt heavier than it should have. I struggled with the second rep with 85 near the top as well. I felt kinda drained going into the gym, I don't think I had eaten enough either. Failed on rep 3. So yeh I wasn't pleased at all with this. Considering I got 82.5kgx4 last week I should have at least manged a triple.
Bench 75kgx6-Failed on rep 7. Utter piss. I have done this for 8 before. Won't think too much off it though because of the circumstances I explained above. Didn't bother with speed work.
Chinups-BW+20kgx3x3x2(PR)-Reasonably pleased with this. Perhaps a bit ambitious, maybe should have used 15kg.
Laterals-10kgplatesx7x6-Had to use plates because there were no DB's, probably made it a bit harder. Not sure if this is a PR.
DB skulls-12.5kgx4, 10kg platesx6x8-Just felt like **** by this point. Felt like going home.
Grip work-Did a few sets with the grippers to kill some time. What a **** attitude.
Well there it is. Hardly a stellar performance. I even drank less than usual at the weekend, go figure. I'll be so f***** pissed if my bench isn't up after doing this. Thinking of doing some max work next week and then rotating the lifts, stuff like CG to regular again. I may switch the template on bench again, feel like I may have got the usefulness out of the 1x3-5, 1x8-10. Well that is that. Hopefully will have a good day on Thursday, I have the day off so I should be fresh. I think I may be to aggressive in ramping the weights up though and cutting cycles short.
Anyway, until next time...
Quagmire
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.