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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well I was doing it with plates on my chest, then under the direction of WBA switched to a dumbbell behind the head which was much harder, so I more than halved the weight. I expect to PR with it on Monday again, it is working me so that is what matters. How are you doing it? The same way?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tuesday

-Had to move leg workout to today. Here it is:


Squats 2 x 5-100kg(PR)

Squats 1 x 15-85kg(PR)

Leg Press 2x15-110kg

Good mornings 1x20-20kg

Calves 1 x 10-70kg(PR)

Weighted Ab 2 x20-10kgdumbbell(PR)

--Don't have time to add anything else in right now, might edit and update, until Thursday...
 

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Craig I'll email you something more detailed later on - for now increase calories like I told you.
 

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gotta love those calories increases
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EFFORT said:
gotta love those calories increases
towards the end of a training cycle, as you begin to tire, is the supercompensation phase where IF you feed yourself accordingly you'll get the biggest gains. Hence the need for extra eggy goodness.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
Well I was doing it with plates on my chest, then under the direction of WBA switched to a dumbbell behind the head which was much harder, so I more than halved the weight. I expect to PR with it on Monday again, it is working me so that is what matters. How are you doing it? The same way?
Oh, I see.

No, I've been holding a db on my chest. That's a good idea to able to hold a smaller db though... doesn't it hurt your neck?
 

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Oh, I see.

No, I've been holding a db on my chest. That's a good idea to able to hold a smaller db though... doesn't it hurt your neck?
Doesn't hurt the neck at all. You hold it under it and do it controlled. Suppose it would hurt if you were doing erratic reps though and hitting the weight into your neck.






Thursday

Incline Barbell Press 3 x 5-67.5, 70, 70kg(PR)-Good.

Standing Barbell Press 5 x 3-42.5kg-Concentrated on form, still challenging.

Seated Dumbbell Press 3 x 8-17.5kg(PR)-Good progress, like these.

EZ Skullcrushers 3 x 10-12.5kg(PR)-Increase on last wek which is good. Seeing slow but steady progress with this.

Just a quick update, don't have much time to add much more, until Saturday...:box:
 

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Good job, do what I said with the extra protein/eggs. I'll write you a longer email on the weekend
 

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Deadlifts 3 x 5-130kg, 132.5kg, 135kg(PR)-Nearly over the 300 lb with this. So close I can taste it. Just managed the last set, it was brutal. Pretty sure my back started to round on the last rep to. Think the bulk of the increases have been had this cycle, can't picture myself doing too much more.

Rows 3 x 8-65kg-Maintainted the weight and concentrated on the form. Still challenging in the last few reps.

Rear Delt row 1 x 15-35kg-Think I have found a weight I can do this with. Was quite hard in the last few reps.

Barbell Curls 2 x10-25kg-2 reps added on and 5 kg off. Could have done a bit more but I decided to keep everything completely strict with these.

EZ Reverse Curls 2 x 10-17.5kg-Not to bad, was easier than last week.

Ok workout, until Monday/Tuesday...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quagmire911 said:
Saturday

Deadlifts 3 x 5-130kg, 132.5kg, 135kg(PR)-Nearly over the 300 lb with this. So close I can taste it. Just managed the last set, it was brutal. Pretty sure my back started to round on the last rep to. Think the bulk of the increases have been had this cycle, can't picture myself doing too much more.

Rows 3 x 8-65kg-Maintainted the weight and concentrated on the form. Still challenging in the last few reps.

Rear Delt row 1 x 15-35kg-Think I have found a weight I can do this with. Was quite hard in the last few reps.

Barbell Curls 2 x10-25kg-2 reps added on and 5 kg off. Could have done a bit more but I decided to keep everything completely strict with these.

EZ Reverse Curls 2 x 10-17.5kg-Not to bad, was easier than last week.

Ok workout, until Monday/Tuesday...

Congraz. You've got your deadlift goal you've setted up for July 1st.

What's your bodyweight right now?
 

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Bodyweight is about 161lb-or 11 and a half stone. Put on about 4-5lb in the last 4-5weeks.
 

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Bodyweight is about 161lb-or 11 and a half stone. Put on about 4-5lb in the last 4-5weeks.
You're close to your 2x bodyweight deadlift.

Good work.
 

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Craig - remember to increase those calories. I'll write you an email soon but I can tell you we'll drop the reps to get the weight in.

Your deadlift 1RM should be 340-350 right now. We may do some triples for the last two weeks.

For now keep going, I'll write to you tomorrow.

Biceps still seem to be an issue so I'll suggest some more options.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tuesday

Squats 2 x 5-100kg

Squats 1 x 20-85kg(PR)

Leg Press 2x15-110kg

Hyperextensions 2 x 20-20kg

Calves 1 x 10-70kg

Weighted Ab 2 x20-10kg

---Again not much time today so very brief. 20 repper was murder. Not bad workout overall.

Until Thursday...
 

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Incline Barbell Press 3 x 3-75kg-First set I needed a little help with the weight on the last rep. Second set I needed a lot of help on the last rep. Last set I only got the first rep and stopped after that. So it didn't go to well. The dilemma of 72.5 being too little, and 75 being too much. Thinking of getting ankle weights that will slide over the end of the bar, which will be a 2.5lb increase instead of a 5.5lb increase.

Close Grip Bench 55kg-1x9 and then 1x6. Incline obviously took it out of me, as this was worse than last time.

Dips 2 x 8-10-Skipped these out, chest and arms were tired as hell by now.

Lateral Raises 3 x 12-7kg(PR)-Last few reps were hard, but this was generally easier than everything else today.

Until Saturday...
 

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Block Deadlift 1 x 5-145kg(320lb-7.5kg increase)-Just made it. Felt good loading up three plates either side. Could get used to it heh. Think there was a bit of rounding on the last rep though.
1 x 12-122.5kg(PR)-Very tiring, especially after the first set.

Chins 4 x 6-10kg-Same as last time. Missed last rep on last set. Suppose this isn't so bad as I have put on nearly half a stone.

Hammer Curls-3x8-15kg-This was easier than last week, but an increase would have been too much.

Good workout overall. Did some rowing+swimming post workout. Nearing the end of this cycle, looking forward to being under less stress heh.

Until Tuesday...:box:
 

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Incline Barbell Press 3 x 3-72.5kg

Standing Barbell Press 5 x 3-42.5kg

Seated Dumbbell Press 3 x 10-17.5kg(PR)


Squats 3 x 3-105kg-Missed last rep on last set.

Calves 1 x 10-70kg

Weighted Ab 2 x 20-10kg

---Had to condense workouts this week because of schedule.

Until then end of the week!...:up:
 

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Deadlifts 3 x 3, 130, 135, 140kg(308lb)-Strength is creeping up nicely. That's me into the 300's and it feels good. Last set was challenging, but not the worst I've ever had to do. My form was good this week.

Rows 3 x 8 65kg-Form was great on these now. Even thought weight hasn't gone up I still feel as if I have made good progress as form is much better.

Rear Delt row 1 x 15-35kg-Some improvement on form but still don't like these.

Barbell Curls 2 x15-25kg(PR)-Noticeably easier than last time. 5 extra reps.

EZ Reverse Curls 2 x 12-17.5kg(PR)-Couple more reps than last time, definite improvment.

Good workout overall. Think this is my last heavy workout for a couple of weeks, but I will still post the light workouts. Have to see what WBA comes up with, thanks to him again for all his great advice-making a big difference. It's sad but I'm 17 and squatting and deadlifitng more than most of the adults in my gym and bench is probably about the same. The thing is most of them only do bench haha.

Anyway until next week...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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