ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Seriously.. MM excluded, I don't see you people sharing useful advice as he generously does so until then stfu or gtfo.wolf116 said:Fvck off losers!
He is one of the most knowledgeable guys here and he has helped many guys get on track.
EFFORT is the only guy more knowledgeable then Quag, but he hardly ever posts (I don't blame him). And Throttle when it comes to diet.
Thanks Quagmire, for keeping this forum about lifting big weights. Keep up the good fight against the bicep pumpers.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Then amaze us with YOUR knowledge. No?IrishDJ said:ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
Worthless topic.IrishDJ said:ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.