ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Seriously.. MM excluded, I don't see you people sharing useful advice as he generously does so until then stfu or gtfo.wolf116 said:Fvck off losers!
He is one of the most knowledgeable guys here and he has helped many guys get on track.
EFFORT is the only guy more knowledgeable then Quag, but he hardly ever posts (I don't blame him). And Throttle when it comes to diet.
Thanks Quagmire, for keeping this forum about lifting big weights. Keep up the good fight against the bicep pumpers.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Then amaze us with YOUR knowledge. No?IrishDJ said:ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
Worthless topic.IrishDJ said:ther are loads of more knowledgable guys on this forum and all i ever see is u posting away. blah de blah bla blah u think u know everything there is to know. boy is it annoying. just dont feel u have to add something all the time. thanks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.