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Q's about few girls + playful tease and convos

faiNt`

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Advice please

A) HB 9 gives eye contact and smiles, say hi when we pass, all that, I don't think I'm too interested in her though unless she makes an effort. Recently just formally "met" her and introduced myself name exchanged.

B) HB 9 sit next to her in a class, whenever I say something to her she laughs at it 95% of the time, for real. Usually we joke about things that are funny because they are so true in life. Occasionally we make eye contact when passing by in the halls and smile say hi and all that.

C) HB 8.5 Met her roughly 4-5 months ago with her initiating contact with me. She didn't know my name, but I knew her because she's fairly popular. She had a boyfriend when she met me, but ****, she didn't act like it. Hugs, kino, intense eye contact, you name it; I can't see how I could be overplaying this at all, but I guess it's possible since I like her alot.

D) HB 9 Met her in the beginning of the year with her kinda initiating. We would talk about school stuff alot, she'd get answers off me and we'd trade homework and stuff. Now it's moved to a closer relationship, I'm pretty sure we're only friends, but nothing is 100%.

E) HB 7 Slut to be honest. I could get an easy lay if I wanted, and I don't want to sound like a fag, but I want my first time to be special. At least someone I want and not someone who will do alot of guys in the same day.

Now, questions:

With girl B, is this what I'm aiming for with neg and playful tease and sexual aimed convos?

We're learning about the holocaust, Jews had to get their noses measured or some **** (lol) to check if they were over certain measurement. So I'm like "Cutting it pretty close there eh?" (pointing at her nose) she laughs and tells me to shut up. I think that's the idea?

With girl C, boyfriend, but .. is it good if she gears the convo in any sexual way when what I'm saying has NOTHING to do with that? Plus I want to know if this is what is meant by push/pull --

Walking down the hall to class with her like usual, she waits for me at her locker. I walk up and I'm like "Cmon" and she goes in front and we go toward class. After we get out of the mosh of people we walk side by side and she starts critizing me on how I always take forever. I'm like "Don't harp on me girl" "How'd you like that vocab?" (she used a word before that I didn't know what it meant and told me I needed to work on it xD)

She's said something like "You know I like it when you do that.." or something of that sort. I was like "Bet it turns you on big time huh?" "Yeah def " Also didn't walk with her on the way back from class (we usually do) and she hit my ass and said "Oh so you don't wait for me now?" Figured it was good because I left her wanting more time with me. (think that's right lol)


Along those lines, anyway.
 
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duffman360

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I want my first time to be special.

that does not sound weird at all
 

faiNt`

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Yeah, but I wouldn't go around telling everyone that in real life lol
 

jon3947

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A) probably only gonna be a friend at best, little chance for a relationship

B) Starting to look like a friend unless you do more things like the nose joke

C) A good shot at a gf, but wait at least month until she breaks up her bf until you start hooking up with her

D) If you want a relationship with her, talk to her about things beside school and do some nose jokes. Maybe a friend is as far as you will go with her

E) Don't bother
 
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