Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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[Q] keys to get women obsessed??

yic17

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wzup guys.

i've been in PU for around 3-4 months. had good restuls on attracting women. now just trying to hit on a 10 and get lay for the 1st time. still working on my meta-frame and some little stuff..

anyways. i've read many posts about women buying guys stuffs out of no where, women calling u non-stop like an AFC, women wanting sex and ****.. i am sure a lot of u have been there.. i just wanna know what are the KEYS to make that happen?? what is it that's gonna make a girl fall into u soo hard that she can't live without u??

any answers would be appreciated.

_yic17
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Adrian

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Good Question. I thought about that on several different occasions myself.
 

00Kevin

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I'm currently in that situation right now. I have a girl that buys me stuff all the time, gives me back massages, calls me all the time, and sucks just about every time I see her.

When I ask my self what I did to get this I don't know exactly.

here are some of the things I've done.

1. I talked to her on the phone and had long conversations
2. I told her that I don't play phone games and that she could call when ever she wanted .
3. I never kissed her. I told her that I don't kiss unless I know I have strong feelings for her.
4. I told her that she was not really my type physically, but I think she is a the best girl personality wise that I've ever meet.
5. I told her that she was a wonderfull girl for giving me things.
6. I've taken her out for drinks, dinner, and movies.
7. I make fun of her all the time.
8. I've made her cry because I told her that I just couldn't go out with her.

I'm actually afraid of doing anything special for this girl because I don't want her to think tha t I'm interested.

I think the key with dating is to treat the girl like she is just one of your guy friends. Every once and a while do something that makes her wonder if you want to be more than friends.
 

Lifeforce

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You don't want that kind of attention, it's such a turn off. You'll only feel guilt because theý buy stuff, you feel obligated to return it, and they call you and force you to meet. I don't like it.
 
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