"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Q about attitude?

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Ok, generally I can be either really easily amused (laughing a lot) or sort of chilled out depending on my mood. Well it seems to me that always laughing (sometimes inappropriately) sseems to come from my easily amused times - but when I'm more chilled, it's less laughing and morejust smirking etc. I've read here that people love being around other happy people because it raises everyones mood (and I can vouch for that), but it seems less suave than just staying chilled. What do you guys suggest? Less of either one wouldn't be changing my personality or anything, it would just be choosing a default. Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well if your always jokin n stuff you might not be taken as serious. I think its great that ur always smiling and laughing n ****e.
 
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yeah, like me, i cant help it i laugh at everything. but every day i get atleast 5 or more compliments about my laugh. yeah i enjoy it and i always make other people laugh, but they also take me seriously too. so it all works out. just dont laugh at the stuff thats totally serious, like if someone died. thats just not funny
 
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Originally posted by icallug
just dont laugh at the stuff thats totally serious, like if someone died. thats just not funny
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A+ advice here people!

what are we in the HS forum or something?

ok DJoneday,

attitude, persona whatever you want to call it, its who you are.

define who you are by what makes you happy and what you like.

a while back i went out with a friend of mine to hit up some bars.

he is short, overweight, glasses, and not that attractive.

so we go out, get some drinks, try to pickup some chicks, have fun, do some crazy sh!t, etc.

so by the end of the night were tired i picked up 2 numbers (at the time it was one potential, and one girl i LJBF'd from the get-go) and he picked up none.

but he out alpha'd me that night becuase he definatley had more fun than i did.

even though i picked up two numbers, he was the guy crackin jokes, having a blast, meeting a ton of girls, (whether they were interested in him or not he could care less) and flirting with the bartender.

to me it was just an average night out but when i looked back i realized that i needed to strive to be more like my friend.

you understand what i am saying?
 
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Not Me.You come around me all giddy and jolly and Sh1t,when i'm pissed off you might get back-handed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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