"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pyramid or one weight?

Snap87

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Sup guys, have a question

IS it better to pyramid (130*12, 135*8, 140*4, etc..)
Or is it better to stick with one weight, but keeping it in your rep range (6-12 for mass i believe)? Of course if you can do more than 12, you should increase your weight. And each set to failure right?

Whats your guys opinions?



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warboss Alex

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I'm against pyramiding. Warm-ups I'm all for, but your workset should be at your limit (heaviest you can lift), so that in every set you're pushing as hard as you can; by increasing this weight every time you lift, you're constantly pushing your limits further, getting stronger and bigger on the way.
 

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Re:

Agreed.

Magazines and even the EAS body for life program would have you believe multiple sets are the "best" way to workout.

BUT, muscles only grow for 1 reason, fatigue/work above and beyond what they're used to. Growth is the result of this, and a muscle adapts or it tears.

Sets that don't push this threshhold @ a high enough rep range are just cardio sets, since you're really only burning sugar/fat, but not pushing the weight/reps up over what you did last week.

LOTS of people ask me why I do 1 exercises with a few sets or why I'm in the gym under 1 hour...what are you there for if you're there longer or doing more?

Isolation exercises are cute, but if there's anything I learned from Powerlifting, THEY are only used when your supporting muscles are stagnating. Such as when triceps aren't growing with chest strength. Chest strength is a matter of a system, since it also relies on the Triceps and Front Deltoid, and to some extent the Lats (since you PUSH up). If you go big, and constantly grow with Chest exercises, as a BY product, your triceps and front deltoid HAVE to grow, otherwise you can't lift more weight. It would be IMPOSSIBLE.

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Alot of what APPEARS to be pyramiding, is merely a few warmup sets of 12, 8, 4 etc, until they do 1 all out set or some combination thereof for X reps ( say 6 to as high as 50 depending on the exercises). Volume might empty muscle glycogen stores, but the goal is strength, is strength comes from more muscle, more muscle = strength, and the only way to do that is consistent, growth and progress each week.




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