"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Putting your thoughts out there VS waiting to be asked about your thoughts

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I have always thought, personally, that putting your thoughts out there is not only a good way to get exposure and make similar people wanna connect and cooperate in different aspects, but it is also an active way.

Sitting and waiting to be asked, I guess, works only for the people who are well known for sth already. Which one do you prefer more and use more? Why? Which one seems to work best for you and how?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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On the forum it's good, on a date not so much.

As a general rule, never volunteer info to women, only answer questions. Let her do 70% of the talking.
 
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