ok maybe most relationships are like this or maybe not, i dont come here often to ask for advice and only do if i really need to, but how do i get my gf to put out more, maybe im just alot hornier than her lol, apperently im really horny you see lol but i put out a bit more than her and i want her to put out a little bit more so, by putting out i just mean generally taking things further or starting things, i thought i'd experiment with this a little and i thought id try and just not put out at all and so she had to start something, this worked fairly well but i think there is probably something that would work a little better is there anything you guys have picked up that works well??