prairiedog24
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Awww hell fvckin yeah bro! -----> This is one of my favorite Euro-Pop songs of all time! :yes:prairiedog24 said:
So you're one of these people?prairiedog24 said:Naw... I'm not Russian, I have German Mennonite roots (although the ancestors lived in Russia, does that count?), and I work for a Russian owned and managed company. I was their original english-as-an-only-language hire, so I give them crap whenever possible. Also have a teenage Russian cousin (adopted). GF is Serbian.
For some reason I just can't escape the slavs at this point in my life. What can I say. :flowers:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Haha, I've never seen that wiki article. That's us. I have to say though, lots of that stuff I wouldn't recognize. I should read up!OTB said:
Ah no I love my managers and they love me. They tried to get me to stay and go into the business with them, but I left for lawschool, so I only work for them when I'm back on breaks now and over the summer. My "Russian" story about working for them, was my very first day they decided I was a good guy who could be trusted with the store, so they left for 3 hours while I ran things. Three different Russian families came in. The only thing I could do was say "nyet paruski" (at least I knew that thanks to my russian cousin) and write down the bosses cell phone numbers for them. I'm sure they got an earful about the stupid american they hired.It's actually pretty crazy that you were hired as their English-language-only speaker. We have quite a few Russian stores over here where I live (I was actually working for one for a while) and they never hire people who don't speak the tongue of the motherland! Guess they needed your impeccable translating abilities huh?... and what kind of bullsh1t did my Soviet cousins put you through? :crackup:
Yeah dude she's awesome. Kinda the reason I'm at this forum though. I've learned Serbian girls have an extremely...umm... "materialistic" cultural outlook on life these days. Radically different from my background. We're so opposite in so many ways.In terms of your girlfriend, she's probably pretty hot right? (you wouldn't be with her for any other reason now would you...) Serbians are actually the closest thing to the Russian people (after the Belarussians and Ukranians). From an objective point of view, Eastern European women are actually known the world-over for their impeccable beauty. As a matter of fact, Mystery and many other famous lotharios have been known to have made statements on behalf of the superb beauty of Eastern European women :flowers:
haha... pretty much. I love my russians (and my serb) but deep down inside I'm still USA all the way =)I'm glad my people have made such a good impression on you prairiedog24.....![]()