"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Put Your Age in Your Profile

Atom Smasher

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Guys, forum rules dictate that you MUST have your age in your public profile in order to post in the Mature Man forum, and of course you must be age 25 or older.

I'm noticing that lots of new guys are posting without their age published. Please rectify this and publish your age before we make a sweep and delete posts.

Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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betheman

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they should put their age on regardless of which subsection they use, makes it a little easier to understand where people are coming from, i.e. a guy putting up a post asking for advice, is he 17 or 37? makes a big difference in the reponse
 

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I agree 100%. I hate wasting a round of posts asking how old someone is.
 

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betheman said:
they should put their age on regardless of which subsection they use, makes it a little easier to understand where people are coming from, i.e. a guy putting up a post asking for advice, is he 17 or 37? makes a big difference in the reponse
True....age gives context. Should be compulsory everywhere on here...
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Big Nuts said:
True....age gives context. Should be compulsory everywhere on here...
So does where you live. For example, I live in Norcal, girls up here are all crazy. I used to live in Socal (San Diego), girls there were all b1tches. I've lived in other areas, some places where girls were nice and friendly, other places not so much.

Your geographical location makes a difference as well.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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