So to make this short and simple, what you put into life is what you get out of life. And my night was just another example of this.
I like to think of life as this kind of 'random soup'. The more good energy you put into it, the more you'll get out of it and the better it'll taste. The more bad energy you put in,the worse it will taste. If you randomly do good things, then random good things will somehow happen to you. For example, if you're gaming a chick and you find out she has a boyfriend, you can either say WELL **** YOU THEN!! ****ING SLUT..YOU'RE JUST A LESBIAN HAHAHAHA and walk a way, or you can say, OH WOW, THAT'S REALLY COOL, INTRODUCE ME TO HIM. Next thing you know you're being introduced to all her girlfriends..THIS IS STACY, TANIA, AND MEGAN..and then who knows, you might strike up something good with Stacy and she invites you to a party and you end up hooking up with her roomate's sister's cousin. You see, you can either have a good attitude and be adventurous, or have a bad one and stay home.
I can't count the number of times I've just gone out randomly by myself or with my friends, with no plan at all, and have ended up meeting a really cool guy or scoring a girls number or a make out.
Just like tonight.
After work, my friend Jonah and I got some Panda Express and played some basketball. The night was pretty fvcking gay and uneventful. So we decided to take a random walk and ended up going to the playground of the local elementary school. This is like 11 at night also but who cares. So we get there and guess what? There's a random group of girls and a couple guys there. So we sit on the playground and talk amongst ourselves and about 10 minutes later the girls come and approach us. Eventually I isolate the only hot girl of the group, 17, perky tits, short shorts and a belly shirt, a solid 8.5. Nothing physical happened but we flirted a lot and I got her number, I'm planning on calling her in a minute actually...I could have made out with her but I was afraid my breath was stinky because of the Panda and I was getting Cotton mouth for some reason....This has been happning lately when I get nervous when I'm solo with a girl and I know I can mac wtih them. Any suggestions for this?
Anyways...
They leave and some other random people show up and play soccer, using their cars to illuminate the field, so jonah and I say fvck it, let's go say hi. We end up playing a really fun soccer game and we met some cool people. Our uneventful night had turned into something really fun...and really random.
What you put out is what you get in return.
Go out more, do random things, be kind on a random basis, and eventually life will reward you in a random way! Good luck
EDIT:
Just got done mssging that girl over facebook. Was so sloppy and ****ty haha. Idk why I suck at mssging/texting so much but I do. I called her, we talked for like 10-15 minutes, way longer than we should have, but i wasn't thinking properly (not in state) so she said she had to go. Then mssged her on fb, trying to get her to hang out tonight. Persistance was for nothing becuase she declined "hahah no, I'll make you wait to hang out with me". She also said she was happy she went to the park because "she met a really chill guy!". Anyways, I still have a chance, and I'll get some sooner or later, will probably talk to her on monday and set something up for wednesday. I'll c and p the convo later, even though it's embarrassing you guys can ridicule me and tell me how to improve.
I like to think of life as this kind of 'random soup'. The more good energy you put into it, the more you'll get out of it and the better it'll taste. The more bad energy you put in,the worse it will taste. If you randomly do good things, then random good things will somehow happen to you. For example, if you're gaming a chick and you find out she has a boyfriend, you can either say WELL **** YOU THEN!! ****ING SLUT..YOU'RE JUST A LESBIAN HAHAHAHA and walk a way, or you can say, OH WOW, THAT'S REALLY COOL, INTRODUCE ME TO HIM. Next thing you know you're being introduced to all her girlfriends..THIS IS STACY, TANIA, AND MEGAN..and then who knows, you might strike up something good with Stacy and she invites you to a party and you end up hooking up with her roomate's sister's cousin. You see, you can either have a good attitude and be adventurous, or have a bad one and stay home.
I can't count the number of times I've just gone out randomly by myself or with my friends, with no plan at all, and have ended up meeting a really cool guy or scoring a girls number or a make out.
Just like tonight.
After work, my friend Jonah and I got some Panda Express and played some basketball. The night was pretty fvcking gay and uneventful. So we decided to take a random walk and ended up going to the playground of the local elementary school. This is like 11 at night also but who cares. So we get there and guess what? There's a random group of girls and a couple guys there. So we sit on the playground and talk amongst ourselves and about 10 minutes later the girls come and approach us. Eventually I isolate the only hot girl of the group, 17, perky tits, short shorts and a belly shirt, a solid 8.5. Nothing physical happened but we flirted a lot and I got her number, I'm planning on calling her in a minute actually...I could have made out with her but I was afraid my breath was stinky because of the Panda and I was getting Cotton mouth for some reason....This has been happning lately when I get nervous when I'm solo with a girl and I know I can mac wtih them. Any suggestions for this?
Anyways...
They leave and some other random people show up and play soccer, using their cars to illuminate the field, so jonah and I say fvck it, let's go say hi. We end up playing a really fun soccer game and we met some cool people. Our uneventful night had turned into something really fun...and really random.
What you put out is what you get in return.
Go out more, do random things, be kind on a random basis, and eventually life will reward you in a random way! Good luck
EDIT:
Just got done mssging that girl over facebook. Was so sloppy and ****ty haha. Idk why I suck at mssging/texting so much but I do. I called her, we talked for like 10-15 minutes, way longer than we should have, but i wasn't thinking properly (not in state) so she said she had to go. Then mssged her on fb, trying to get her to hang out tonight. Persistance was for nothing becuase she declined "hahah no, I'll make you wait to hang out with me". She also said she was happy she went to the park because "she met a really chill guy!". Anyways, I still have a chance, and I'll get some sooner or later, will probably talk to her on monday and set something up for wednesday. I'll c and p the convo later, even though it's embarrassing you guys can ridicule me and tell me how to improve.
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