Put her in her place.

[DonGiovanni]

more than one object of my interest has claimed that the thing she would love most is if a man put her in her place. But I have no idea what that consists of or what it even looks like! Is it just asserting my masculinity?

so my question is, How do you put a woman in her place the CORRECT way?

 

[Alex DeLarge]

You go with your honest intuition. Is she doing something that you think she should'nt? Tell her! Don't be rude or angry about it. Just tell her.

 

[kidsmooves]

tell her "Hey b*tch, go in the kitchen and make me a sandwich!"

 

[YouKnowI'mRight]

more than one object of my interest has claimed that the thing she would love most is if a man put her in her place. But I have no idea what that consists of or what it even looks like! Is it just asserting my masculinity?

so my question is, How do you put a woman in her place the CORRECT way?

She wants you to force her to be authentic as well as not be a brat (maturity drop).

How you do it is a matter of style, not about being correct.

An Example Of One Style: This is why you'll see PUAs suggest that when you're meeting a girl and tries to label you like "you're a jerk" that you could reply back "you're a jerk" but do it in a childish voice like you're on an elementary school playground...hard to describe, but raise your pitch and dramatize it. (if this isn't clear, try to remember taunting when you were young..."you're a boogernose, no YOU'RE a boogernose TIMES TWO!").

Women like this sort of thing because you busted her in a fun way instead of getting sucked into her immature "you're a jerk" labeling. You made it obvious you perceived her as behaving immaturely and just had fun with it instead of a) apologizing (nice guy), b) getting pissed (jerk), or c) otherwise getting defensive, getting sucked in, and trying to PROVE you're not a jerk.

"Putting her in her place" is not pushing her down, it's about being aware when her behavior is less than it should be and either taking some action even if the action is deciding to completely ignore it as if you didn't hear or see it.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Think along the lines of a father.

You love your children.
You care for your children.
You know you are going to do and say things they wont like.
But you do it anyways because it's the right thing to do.
You are not concerned over how the child at the time of punishment views you. But you are still fair and honest in your opinion.

At the end of the day things are good and everyone is happy.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Put her in her place.

I have heard women describe it as "he's the only one to call me on my bullsh!t."

A woman's words are often polite lies to avoid confrontation. It's like when they tell you they're busy instead of just saying "no." They think it will hurt your feelings less to lie, so that makes it ok.

We say to pay attention to actions, not words, but occasionally her words will be the exact opposite of how she really feels. Every once in a while, it's ok to playfully call her on her bullsh!t. Demonstrating that you can tell when she's lying is a powerful thing.

 

[BillieAnn]

There is no difference between men and women! There is only between stupid and intelligent people! Men are more sensitive and women express there feelings more then man do.. Please, you do not spend time on nonsense! Do you love her??