"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pussed out on kiss close

applesauce

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First post here but needing some advice.

I had a girl over to my place and had escalated kino to a point where the kiss would have been a slam dunk. Great conversation, overall a great night. However, I failed to kiss close out of nervousness.

When would you guys make an attempt to correct this mistake and kiss close?

Thanks guys.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJuanabe

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"Please post in the high school forum." ROTFLMAO!

"When would you guys make an attempt to correct this mistake and kiss close?" Well, you could wait until your honeymoon, but that might be dragging it out a bit. There doesn't need to be a right time if she is interested, you just have to do it. How about the next time you see her, when you go to her place to pick her up, the moment you see her you just say "Come here", put your arms around her and make out.
 
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