"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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pushups arent going to get you ripped, but are an important part of any weight training regiment

P.S. I can do about 35 in a row twice with a 2 min. break
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by chill
pushups arent going to get you ripped, but are an important part of any weight training regiment

P.S. I can do about 35 in a row twice with a 2 min. break
I do'nt know man. I think pushups definitely can get you ripped. I'm not too bad. And all I do is pushups/pullups and ride a bike during the warmer days.
 

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i justdo pushups to simply build muscle in the area between my chest and abs (diaphram/ribcage) it's the only way to define that area
 

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Originally posted by No_Sleep
Yes, make sure you go further than 90 degrees also if you move your hands closer together they get harder
In any Intro Kinetics class in college, they say not to bend the elbow past 90 degrees. that what they told me anyways. it was something about stretching the muscled while the elbows are too far back can cause injury or soemthing like that.
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
The wierd thing about pushups is that you can build up to a big number quickly, and if you stop, you can shrink back down quickly.

But I say do 'em. I think it's a good idea.

Alexi
Yeah sorry I made a mistake. Don't think I was paying attention when I said that. :D

Anyhow, doing a lot of pushups doesn't necessarily make you cut. Doing that would be considered spot reducing and spot reducing is a myth. You'll build some strength and endurance, but if you got fat arms, doing push ups won't help. It's all about your diet and hypertrophing your muscles to show which causes you to look more lean and cut.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Anhslaught
Anyhow, doing a lot of pushups doesn't necessarily make you cut. Doing that would be considered spot reducing and spot reducing is a myth. You'll build some strength and endurance, but if you got fat arms, doing push ups won't help. It's all about your diet and hypertrophing your muscles to show which causes you to look more lean and cut.
Maybe. Maybe it's the cardio and that I remain active. At the very least, doing pushups can't HURT your definition.
 

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Push ups? Bah, they tone up your chest and upper arm muscles but they make them bulky but keyword: TONED

I can do 50 push ups at once but I would rather bench press and deadlift because they both help Your arms. One helps the chest and other the legs and back muscles I think

Hit the gym guys its better
 

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A good tip on doing pushups:

Take your time. If you can do 100 a minute... slow down a little. Move as SLOWLY as you CAN. You'll see that those 100 pushups will be a million times more torturous.

And this also builds muscle much better.

Read that in a US Navy SEAL training handbook.

:p
 

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Originally posted by Keeper
A good tip on doing pushups:

Take your time. If you can do 100 a minute... slow down a little. Move as SLOWLY as you CAN. You'll see that those 100 pushups will be a million times more torturous.

And this also builds muscle much better.

Read that in a US Navy SEAL training handbook.

:p
Reminds me of when I was getting my ass beat over at my old college. A couple upperclassmen told us that they could 'break' us (term we used for when someone drops cause they're too weak to continue) in 10 pushups. We took the challenge. It took us about 10 minutes to do ten pushups. VERY slowly down, stop and hold while halfway down, get to the bottom, stop and hold JUST above the ground, slowly up, etc. etc.

I do them in sets of 20. But each pushup is about four seconds long. So now, I do them slowly. Not as many in a set, but hurts just as much (if not more)

Actually, ANY weight lifting is supposed to be done slow and controlled for maximum benefit, and lowest risk. So whenever you see some guy benching 300 by bouncing it off of his chest one or two times, you can be sure that you can bench 100 pounds less, slowly and controlled, and be better off in the end.
 

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If you want to get bigger doing pushups, change the leverage to make the execise harder, throw plates on your back, and do one handers(until they become easy).

If you can't get a gym or use weights, working up to one handers is about the best thing you can do.

Elevate your feet. My fav is to rest my feet on a swiss ball.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Sh0t
If you want to get bigger doing pushups, change the leverage to make the execise harder, throw plates on your back, and do one handers(until they become easy).

If you can't get a gym or use weights, working up to one handers is about the best thing you can do.

Elevate your feet. My fav is to rest my feet on a swiss ball.
My squadron NCO was HUGE. And he used to elevate his feet on his office desk to do them. It definitely works.
 

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Yup, I had a few Marines and unit mates who were large from doing harder pushups. A favorite was to use a training buddy and have him hold your feet while you did the pushups.
 

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over christmas i did 100 pushups a day because i didn't have proper gym equipment (3 sets of approx 33); i think it actually reduced the size of my chest and arms as opposed to making them bigger (there was a lot of drink involved so meh)

when i was like 13,14 yrs old i found them fvcking hard to do. now, they're pish easy and not very effective at all
 
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