Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I do'nt know man. I think pushups definitely can get you ripped. I'm not too bad. And all I do is pushups/pullups and ride a bike during the warmer days.Originally posted by chill
pushups arent going to get you ripped, but are an important part of any weight training regiment
P.S. I can do about 35 in a row twice with a 2 min. break
In any Intro Kinetics class in college, they say not to bend the elbow past 90 degrees. that what they told me anyways. it was something about stretching the muscled while the elbows are too far back can cause injury or soemthing like that.Originally posted by No_Sleep
Yes, make sure you go further than 90 degrees also if you move your hands closer together they get harder
Yeah sorry I made a mistake. Don't think I was paying attention when I said that.Originally posted by sfalexi
The wierd thing about pushups is that you can build up to a big number quickly, and if you stop, you can shrink back down quickly.
But I say do 'em. I think it's a good idea.
Alexi
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Maybe. Maybe it's the cardio and that I remain active. At the very least, doing pushups can't HURT your definition.Originally posted by Anhslaught
Anyhow, doing a lot of pushups doesn't necessarily make you cut. Doing that would be considered spot reducing and spot reducing is a myth. You'll build some strength and endurance, but if you got fat arms, doing push ups won't help. It's all about your diet and hypertrophing your muscles to show which causes you to look more lean and cut.
Reminds me of when I was getting my ass beat over at my old college. A couple upperclassmen told us that they could 'break' us (term we used for when someone drops cause they're too weak to continue) in 10 pushups. We took the challenge. It took us about 10 minutes to do ten pushups. VERY slowly down, stop and hold while halfway down, get to the bottom, stop and hold JUST above the ground, slowly up, etc. etc.Originally posted by Keeper
A good tip on doing pushups:
Take your time. If you can do 100 a minute... slow down a little. Move as SLOWLY as you CAN. You'll see that those 100 pushups will be a million times more torturous.
And this also builds muscle much better.
Read that in a US Navy SEAL training handbook.
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
My squadron NCO was HUGE. And he used to elevate his feet on his office desk to do them. It definitely works.Originally posted by Sh0t
If you want to get bigger doing pushups, change the leverage to make the execise harder, throw plates on your back, and do one handers(until they become easy).
If you can't get a gym or use weights, working up to one handers is about the best thing you can do.
Elevate your feet. My fav is to rest my feet on a swiss ball.