"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Pushing through

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You're sitting there reading stuff on this site looking for some kind of inspiration to get that HB or maybe turn your life around finally. Problem is that you don't know how you got here in the first place. Most of us here were on the right path to begin with. I know what you’re thinking now: What the hell happened and what should I do now? You read every thing on this site and others and still nothing.

So what's it all about??

It's about the push... When things get tough or maybe unbearable, you can't stop! You must push through even harder than you did before. Push like your life depends on it, cause in the end it does.

What ever you want your life to be depends on what you do every moment of every day. Every moment you're awake, live life like it could be gone tomorrow. You never know what’s going to happen. Sometimes all you have are the moments you had. What are they going to be for you? Moments of pleasures or regrets? You are the only one who can decide, so get off your a$$ and make the life you want, because no one is going to do it for you. I sure as hell can’t I’m busy making my own life.

ADKdj

P.S. BTW… the hot HB over there wants you to talk to her. Why do you think she is dressed like that in the first place? So walk yourself over there and just say: “Hi, I couldn’t help but notice how nice you look today, my name is…” And when you walk away you’ll either have her number(congrats!) or at least you tried(no regrets).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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