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So... after that long discussion her and I had, she immediately messaged me the next day..what do you guys think..
GIRL (12:15:15 PM): Not angry but I wanted to stick my tongue out at you in a playful way...social hiatus symptom
ME (12:21:17 PM): was on the phone for a bit... but oh yes, ive heard of the dreaded social hiatus symptom -- i heard in some cases it is nearly uncurable
GIRL (12:21:49 PM): I don't believe that
ME (12:21:56 PM): impossible
ME (12:22:54 PM): Did you do anything fun yesterday? Wear green? Pinch people? Look for lucky charms in random Irishmen's pants?
GIRL(12:24:19 PM): not impossible.. in fact... in 1458 an Australian professor by the name of Blarney McSocializes was stricken down in a small town in Congo
GIRL (12:26:27 PM): the Congo AND Australia weren't even formed in 1458
GIRL (12:27:01 PM): And a Australian named McSocializes? Never
ME (12:29:01 PM): Good point. well, yes. originally he was living in London. His surname was indicative of his families ability to leave ireland for better things. but was ostrocized because of his heritage--hence the triggering of the dreaded "social hiatus"
ME (12:29:13 PM): i said that with my monocle on, by the way
GIRL (12:31:07 PM): Caught that, that was definitely the monocle speaking
ME (12:32:50 PM): i painted my monocle green for st. pattys day
GIRL (12:33:35 PM): So you can't see through it?
ME(12:34:41 PM): i wish i realized that before i was blindesided by the CTA bus
GIRL (12:35:20 PM): So you never answered my questions...
GIRL(12:35:39 PM): Did you do anything fun yesterday? Wear green? Pinch people? Look for lucky charms in random Irishmen's pants?
ME (12:38:13 PM): yeah, a group of us went to a slew of places on Lincoln, im still feelin it..sorta cloudy right now
ME (12:40:43 PM): Know what you mean, drinking on school nights doesn't do well the next day. I was home by 6:30 and in bed by 9, it was fabulous.
GIRL (12:44:47 PM): ah, congrats.
GIRL (12:47:36 PM): Not that sarcasm isn't typical of you, but "ah, congrats" sounds like "ah, whatever. I don't care what you did." Am I wrong?
ME (12:50:56 PM): nah, that's not it.. im just supporting your new hermity ways 150% and you can't fall off the wagon this soon. I'm being a pillar of support
GIRL (12:51:34 PM): Calling BS
ME (12:55:02 PM): hey now.
ME(12:55:17 PM): are you saying you dont have faith in my faith in you?
GIRL (1:03:24 PM): whatever
ME (1:04:27 PM): so you dont care?
GIRL (1:10:24 PM): Care about whether or not you have faith in me? I mean "social hiatus", "hermity ways" sound like jabs, sound thick with bs.
ME (1:17:53 PM): is that your way of saying you want to put your social hiatus behind us?
GIRL (1:20:09 PM): How do you get that from what I wrote? And behind us? It's not about you and me it's about everyone and me.
ME (1:26:14 PM): i know it's about everyone and you.
ME (1:26:22 PM): it will always be about everyone and you
ME (1:26:29 PM): because youre apart of everyone
ME (1:26:58 PM): youre not in a vaccuum. and im sure i spelled that wrong
GIRL (1:27:22 PM): no 2 c's, 2 u's is right
GIRL (1:29:15 PM): Damn, wrong. One c
GIRL(1:33:33 PM): Anyway, I just think you're perturbed that I said I wanted to be by myself. That you think it's about you and it's not. I have moods, I'm an only child and VERY used to be alone so I have time when I just feel so surrounded by people and my energy level can't hold up. Honestly, it zaps me to be around people, that's just how I operate. Not that you asked for any insight into me but you got some nevertheless
ME(1:49:31 PM): that sounds hypocritical to me.
ME (1:49:47 PM): why would anyone else but me occupy my world
ME (1:50:22 PM): ssince you make it seem like the only person that occupies yours is you
GIRL (1:50:42 PM): I don't think you're understanding what Im saying at all
GIRL (1:53:08 PM): I'm not understanding what your saying... why would anyone else occupy my world and I'm making it seem like I'm the only one occupying mine? What does that mean?
ME (1:56:25 PM): im trying to say that
ME (1:56:41 PM): you think that i think that this is about me and im trying to tell you that's not the case
GIRL(1:57:07 PM): then why don't you just say that
GIRL (1:57:15 PM): geez
ME (1:58:30 PM): because i shot from the hip
TWO HOURS LATER
ME (3:39:34 PM): you didnt like shooting from the hip
GIRL (3:41:01 PM): I want you to say what ever works best for you, I just was NOT understanding
ME(3:42:35 PM): gotcha
GIRL (3:44:29 PM): Filled out any brackets for NCAA?
[10 minutes of small talk ensues to keep things nice, then..]
ME (4:21:23 PM): i want to tell you that
ME (4:21:35 PM): i dont care if you want time to yourself
ME (4:21:48 PM): but i felt the way and timing you went about it was all wrong.
ME (4:22:18 PM): in the last week youve suggested youve been biting your lip about something and to me that tells me you dont trust me
ME (4:22:31 PM): even though weve dated for a month (talked for longer)...
ME (4:22:36 PM): helped you apartment hunt
ME (4:22:42 PM): and even made out with you after eating taco bell
ME (4:22:53 PM): (last one is most important, obviiously)
ME (4:22:57 PM): also
ME (4:23:07 PM): i dont think it was a big deal to tease you about it
ME (4:23:18 PM): because you didnt act like it was a big deal to tell you about it
ME (4:24:06 PM): tell me about it, rather
GIRL (4:31:32 PM): I will always act like things arent a big deal (defense mechanism) and trust is something that doesn't come easy to me.
GIRL (4:32:45 PM): My timing? Almost always bad but when I feel the need to say things I disregard whether or not the timing works...it's more important to me to say what I want
GIRL (4:35:36 PM): Helping me apt hunt I appreciate more than you know and making out post Taco Bell feasting is a necessity, how else was I supposed to get a taste of that stuft chicken burrrito?
ME (4:36:57 PM): i also wanted to say that
ME (4:37:08 PM): ive always felt bad about not calling you for days after we initially had sex
ME(4:37:38 PM): i meant to do it earlier, but got really really busy with work. its not an acceptable excuse, but i apologize for it, regardless
GIRL (4:39:42 PM): Actually, never a problem with me because a precendent was set of us talking/seeing each other about once a week or so.
GIRL (4:42:06 PM): Speaking of, I do really feel uncomfortable with the fact that we did sleep with each other so quickly. Not that it wasn't fun, its just that the anticipation and other various steps were missed and that sucks.
ME (4:43:22 PM): im glad you brought that up. it may sound like a surprise, but i feel uncomfortable with it too, actually
GIRL (4:47:11 PM): don't know what to say. glad you feel the same, that's always a good thing. just no way to remedy
ME (4:54:43 PM): does that mean youre closing the door on it?
GIRL (4:56:00 PM): how do you mean?
ME (4:59:28 PM): no remedy. i need to know what you meant by that so i can know if i am wasting my time by continuing to pursue you
GIRL (5:10:57 PM): I mean no remedy on being uncomfortable about sleeping with each other so soon. It already happened so can't remedy it.
ME (5:14:39 PM): i have a meeting to go to.. call me when you feel like company
Then she called me at 11am the next day to ask me for some directions to a store and ended it with "Well talk soon?"
I know its a bit long winded, but what do you guys think.. is she still interested, or just dotting the i's and crossing the T's?
So... after that long discussion her and I had, she immediately messaged me the next day..what do you guys think..
GIRL (12:15:15 PM): Not angry but I wanted to stick my tongue out at you in a playful way...social hiatus symptom
ME (12:21:17 PM): was on the phone for a bit... but oh yes, ive heard of the dreaded social hiatus symptom -- i heard in some cases it is nearly uncurable
GIRL (12:21:49 PM): I don't believe that
ME (12:21:56 PM): impossible
ME (12:22:54 PM): Did you do anything fun yesterday? Wear green? Pinch people? Look for lucky charms in random Irishmen's pants?
GIRL(12:24:19 PM): not impossible.. in fact... in 1458 an Australian professor by the name of Blarney McSocializes was stricken down in a small town in Congo
GIRL (12:26:27 PM): the Congo AND Australia weren't even formed in 1458
GIRL (12:27:01 PM): And a Australian named McSocializes? Never
ME (12:29:01 PM): Good point. well, yes. originally he was living in London. His surname was indicative of his families ability to leave ireland for better things. but was ostrocized because of his heritage--hence the triggering of the dreaded "social hiatus"
ME (12:29:13 PM): i said that with my monocle on, by the way
GIRL (12:31:07 PM): Caught that, that was definitely the monocle speaking
ME (12:32:50 PM): i painted my monocle green for st. pattys day
GIRL (12:33:35 PM): So you can't see through it?
ME(12:34:41 PM): i wish i realized that before i was blindesided by the CTA bus
GIRL (12:35:20 PM): So you never answered my questions...
GIRL(12:35:39 PM): Did you do anything fun yesterday? Wear green? Pinch people? Look for lucky charms in random Irishmen's pants?
ME (12:38:13 PM): yeah, a group of us went to a slew of places on Lincoln, im still feelin it..sorta cloudy right now
ME (12:40:43 PM): Know what you mean, drinking on school nights doesn't do well the next day. I was home by 6:30 and in bed by 9, it was fabulous.
GIRL (12:44:47 PM): ah, congrats.
GIRL (12:47:36 PM): Not that sarcasm isn't typical of you, but "ah, congrats" sounds like "ah, whatever. I don't care what you did." Am I wrong?
ME (12:50:56 PM): nah, that's not it.. im just supporting your new hermity ways 150% and you can't fall off the wagon this soon. I'm being a pillar of support
GIRL (12:51:34 PM): Calling BS
ME (12:55:02 PM): hey now.
ME(12:55:17 PM): are you saying you dont have faith in my faith in you?
GIRL (1:03:24 PM): whatever
ME (1:04:27 PM): so you dont care?
GIRL (1:10:24 PM): Care about whether or not you have faith in me? I mean "social hiatus", "hermity ways" sound like jabs, sound thick with bs.
ME (1:17:53 PM): is that your way of saying you want to put your social hiatus behind us?
GIRL (1:20:09 PM): How do you get that from what I wrote? And behind us? It's not about you and me it's about everyone and me.
ME (1:26:14 PM): i know it's about everyone and you.
ME (1:26:22 PM): it will always be about everyone and you
ME (1:26:29 PM): because youre apart of everyone
ME (1:26:58 PM): youre not in a vaccuum. and im sure i spelled that wrong
GIRL (1:27:22 PM): no 2 c's, 2 u's is right
GIRL (1:29:15 PM): Damn, wrong. One c
GIRL(1:33:33 PM): Anyway, I just think you're perturbed that I said I wanted to be by myself. That you think it's about you and it's not. I have moods, I'm an only child and VERY used to be alone so I have time when I just feel so surrounded by people and my energy level can't hold up. Honestly, it zaps me to be around people, that's just how I operate. Not that you asked for any insight into me but you got some nevertheless
ME(1:49:31 PM): that sounds hypocritical to me.
ME (1:49:47 PM): why would anyone else but me occupy my world
ME (1:50:22 PM): ssince you make it seem like the only person that occupies yours is you
GIRL (1:50:42 PM): I don't think you're understanding what Im saying at all
GIRL (1:53:08 PM): I'm not understanding what your saying... why would anyone else occupy my world and I'm making it seem like I'm the only one occupying mine? What does that mean?
ME (1:56:25 PM): im trying to say that
ME (1:56:41 PM): you think that i think that this is about me and im trying to tell you that's not the case
GIRL(1:57:07 PM): then why don't you just say that
GIRL (1:57:15 PM): geez
ME (1:58:30 PM): because i shot from the hip
TWO HOURS LATER
ME (3:39:34 PM): you didnt like shooting from the hip
GIRL (3:41:01 PM): I want you to say what ever works best for you, I just was NOT understanding
ME(3:42:35 PM): gotcha
GIRL (3:44:29 PM): Filled out any brackets for NCAA?
[10 minutes of small talk ensues to keep things nice, then..]
ME (4:21:23 PM): i want to tell you that
ME (4:21:35 PM): i dont care if you want time to yourself
ME (4:21:48 PM): but i felt the way and timing you went about it was all wrong.
ME (4:22:18 PM): in the last week youve suggested youve been biting your lip about something and to me that tells me you dont trust me
ME (4:22:31 PM): even though weve dated for a month (talked for longer)...
ME (4:22:36 PM): helped you apartment hunt
ME (4:22:42 PM): and even made out with you after eating taco bell
ME (4:22:53 PM): (last one is most important, obviiously)
ME (4:22:57 PM): also
ME (4:23:07 PM): i dont think it was a big deal to tease you about it
ME (4:23:18 PM): because you didnt act like it was a big deal to tell you about it
ME (4:24:06 PM): tell me about it, rather
GIRL (4:31:32 PM): I will always act like things arent a big deal (defense mechanism) and trust is something that doesn't come easy to me.
GIRL (4:32:45 PM): My timing? Almost always bad but when I feel the need to say things I disregard whether or not the timing works...it's more important to me to say what I want
GIRL (4:35:36 PM): Helping me apt hunt I appreciate more than you know and making out post Taco Bell feasting is a necessity, how else was I supposed to get a taste of that stuft chicken burrrito?
ME (4:36:57 PM): i also wanted to say that
ME (4:37:08 PM): ive always felt bad about not calling you for days after we initially had sex
ME(4:37:38 PM): i meant to do it earlier, but got really really busy with work. its not an acceptable excuse, but i apologize for it, regardless
GIRL (4:39:42 PM): Actually, never a problem with me because a precendent was set of us talking/seeing each other about once a week or so.
GIRL (4:42:06 PM): Speaking of, I do really feel uncomfortable with the fact that we did sleep with each other so quickly. Not that it wasn't fun, its just that the anticipation and other various steps were missed and that sucks.
ME (4:43:22 PM): im glad you brought that up. it may sound like a surprise, but i feel uncomfortable with it too, actually
GIRL (4:47:11 PM): don't know what to say. glad you feel the same, that's always a good thing. just no way to remedy
ME (4:54:43 PM): does that mean youre closing the door on it?
GIRL (4:56:00 PM): how do you mean?
ME (4:59:28 PM): no remedy. i need to know what you meant by that so i can know if i am wasting my time by continuing to pursue you
GIRL (5:10:57 PM): I mean no remedy on being uncomfortable about sleeping with each other so soon. It already happened so can't remedy it.
ME (5:14:39 PM): i have a meeting to go to.. call me when you feel like company
Then she called me at 11am the next day to ask me for some directions to a store and ended it with "Well talk soon?"
I know its a bit long winded, but what do you guys think.. is she still interested, or just dotting the i's and crossing the T's?