push and pull question

[RoeCyris]

the last 2 classes i been very friendly with the cute girl that sits in front of me but today she came in lookin a lil mad and i do not talk to girls who are in bad moods, dont want to run the risk of being associated with that feeling. HOWEVER she looked really good today. I wanted nothing more than to lean forward and just whisper that she looked real nice but again, i didnt want to even associate my self with her negative mood and i am attempting to learn how to do push/pull effectivly. my question is, at our next class would it be wise to retro-compliment her? Would it be a bad idea to tell her on wednesday that she looked really nice on monday? or should i completley ignore what she was wearing, doing, HER on monday? would complimenting her for something on monday remove the push effect of not saying a word to her on monday?


Thanks all!


I tried to search for some push pull threads but i couldnt dig any good ones up.

 

[earthshyne]

"Hi, I'm RoeCyris. Sorry I didn't get a chance to chat with you the other day, but I just wanted to say that I think you look great. When I saw you on Monday, especially, you just blew me away, you looked so good."

 

[b's nuts]

she will twist it around on you if you compliment her for monday on wednesday, "i don't look good now?" or "i don't look good any other day?". Compliment her on something specific about her on wednesday, not just a general "look good" or "look hot".

 

[Baruch]

dont compliment her if she is HB8-10

 

[abcd_z]

http://fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=105169272876142

As you can see, the term "push/pull" bears fairly little relation to what you actually did. Which was standing there and doing nothing. Complimenting a girl on pretty much anything (ESPECIALLY something physical) can be used effectively by somebody with a lot of experience under their belts, but for you it should probably be a major no-no, as almost any schmuck can compliment a woman. Focus more on approaching and improving your social skills on a lot of girls, so you can eliminate this needy mentality your post seems to be generating.

 

[Kaine]

"Hi, I'm RoeCyris. Sorry I didn't get a chance to chat with you the other day, but I just wanted to say that I think you look great. When I saw you on Monday, especially, you just blew me away, you looked so good."

Kiss of death

While you're at it, give her a teddy bear, roses and a two page advertisement in the Times telling her that you love her.


Kaine

 

[RoeCyris]

Originally posted by abcd_z
http://fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=105169272876142

As you can see, the term "push/pull" bears fairly little relation to what you actually did. Which was standing there and doing nothing. Complimenting a girl on pretty much anything (ESPECIALLY something physical) can be used effectively by somebody with a lot of experience under their belts, but for you it should probably be a major no-no, as almost any schmuck can compliment a woman.

that push/pull seems more like C+F. "your pg-13 adventurous"? thats BAD c+F but still an atempt at it, to me.

i had understood push/pull to occur over the course of a few days not during a conversation but i will try it all in one conversation on wednesday. and regaurdless, I'll close the deal wednesday cuz im tired of testing things on her, lol, shes been a good sport.

Originally posted by abcd_z
Focus more on approaching and improving your social skills on a lot of girls, so you can eliminate this needy mentality your post seems to be generating.

GOD i just love backhanded advice, its probably the best part of sosuave. you sir are the best part of so suave. and you are SOOOO sauve, obviously.