"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pursuing This Girl In My Class

gomariners51

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I sit next to this cutie in a class of mine,

  • -we started off talking in class (small talk)
    -I saw her outside of class on a sunday, we talked and ended with me getting her number
    -We have walked to our next classes together getting to know eachother, talking and getting comfortable with eachother
    -I called her to study for a quiz last night, we had a good time and were vibing with eachother

I want some advice on how i should go about her now, i can tell that shes interested in me, and she can probley tell i also am interested in her. How should i go out pullin this girl in? any advice homies?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Escalate . Make your move .

I dont know your situation very well because you havent explain in details how everything happened . Did you kino her enough ?

I think your stuck on friend zone . She came to your house and nothing ?

Anyway you have to kino her as much as you can . Also talk her about interesting things , use push-pull on her , use catstring theory .

These things cannot be explained easy in one post . I can see you are new user so read the DJ BIBLE ( the link in the bottom of first page of forum ) , if you dont understand techniques that i mentioned in the followed text just google them .
 

gomariners51

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thanks playa,

yeh i did use kino, and made sure to use good eye contact.
-should i call her and set something up?
or should i wait till class and just play it cool?
i know at some point i gotta be bold and make a move if i want this to go anywhere.

help a homie out
 
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