cablecow15
Master Don Juan
I work in a retail store , and the other day i noticed something that i could directly relate to women and the dating game . i work at a departmant behind a desk and people often come up to me with questions , needing help.
Some will come up and just stand there until i notice them , others will come up and make noise or clear their throat , and some will come right up and speak right up , "Excuse me sir i have a question for you" now with all the interactions i have the ones that annoy me the most are the quiet starers , If i continue my work they will sit there staring holes in the back of my head until i make eye contact , the yare so timid and shy that they cannot muster the courage to save themselves some time to speak up and ask me for help straight out .
On the other hand I have a lot more respect for the people that will come right out and ask for my help weather i see them there or not , they will come up to me and ask for help , and they always seem to be louder and more confident , and i usually enjoy helping them more as well.
I realized this translated over perfectly to how women treat and react to men approaching them , the quiet lurking in the shadows until she looks at me approach Is timid and probably annoys girls who will immediately think , " what a pansy" and a man that will walk right up and talk ot her no matter what she is doing automatically earns more respect than the first man gets no matter how the interaction goes.
So me assertive in as many interactions as you can , It will help your out in many aspects of life , especially women .
Some will come up and just stand there until i notice them , others will come up and make noise or clear their throat , and some will come right up and speak right up , "Excuse me sir i have a question for you" now with all the interactions i have the ones that annoy me the most are the quiet starers , If i continue my work they will sit there staring holes in the back of my head until i make eye contact , the yare so timid and shy that they cannot muster the courage to save themselves some time to speak up and ask me for help straight out .
On the other hand I have a lot more respect for the people that will come right out and ask for my help weather i see them there or not , they will come up to me and ask for help , and they always seem to be louder and more confident , and i usually enjoy helping them more as well.
I realized this translated over perfectly to how women treat and react to men approaching them , the quiet lurking in the shadows until she looks at me approach Is timid and probably annoys girls who will immediately think , " what a pansy" and a man that will walk right up and talk ot her no matter what she is doing automatically earns more respect than the first man gets no matter how the interaction goes.
So me assertive in as many interactions as you can , It will help your out in many aspects of life , especially women .
