Jack Hensy
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2015
- Messages
- 171
- Reaction score
- 32
- Age
- 44
I had a good 4 dates with a woman I met online. Not sure if to pursue or let her go.
1st date - high interest. No smartphone out. Lots of touching, flirting, kissing. She did show up late.
2nd date - she started to test me. (Told me she was having sex with a guy who looked like me, thought the bartender was cute, etc,) She also told me she wanted to be friends. I agreed with her. Lots of kissing, touching. She showed up 15 min late. She disappeared into bathroom for 20 minutes.
3rd date - She cancelled due to sinus infection. She also takes care of her ailing mother who is needs assistance.
3rd date reschedule - We went dancing, lots of touching, kissing, flirting and went back to my place for sex. She showed up 10 min late. She blew up my phone afterwards telling me how much she liked me and couldn't wait to see me again. She texted me nonstop for a week after we had sex. I was cool with her.
4th date - She arrived earlier than me at bar. (finally) I showed up a few min late.
When I walked into the bar she immediately grabbed my hand and we kissed. We sat at a table to watch the band. She told me the guitarist was cute and charming. She wouldn't stop holding my hands, rubbing my back, she bought us pizza, I bought us drinks, We didn't dance much and we didn't kiss. We flirted a little. Interest was slipping. Every time I pulled my hand away though she would grab it again and pull it back in. At 1:30am I walked her our to her car and asked her to come back to my place again. She said OK. Then she followed me home--then when she pulled up to my driveway she rolled down her window I cant stay and have to leave my mother woke up disoriented and I have to see her now! My sister is on her way too. If she gets there before me I will come back.
She sent me 5 texts later saying she couldn't back over and her mom was doing better. Hope I wasn't upset.
It was cruel for her to leave at 1:30am when we are supposed to be having sex. I kept my cool though with her and smiled and said ok, see ya.
Then she texts me more throughout the week.
I made plans with her again for Tuesday night and she said.."I have a long day tomorrow and if I am not tired I will call you by 4pm and let you know. But lets plan on me being there at your place!
I said, if you cant make definite plans then I wont make plans with you. She said "K"
Then the next day said didn't mean to be rude and I just like making definite plans based out of respect for each others time. She said ok great, and said the weather is getting great we need to get together. Then two days passes she texts me "have a great day at work." I replied thank you.
Then she disappears for 10 days, no more texts. My cell phone stops working too. I got a new phone.
I called her on Saturday and she answers(which was good) I said hi how have you been? She said good how are you?! I said my phone died a week ago and my text messaging stop working. Got a new phone. She said I haven't texted you, but I am the gym, standing here naked and just got out of tanning bed can you call me in a little while? I said..."I tell you what reach out to me if you want to get together in the next week or so" She said ok, then asks how I have been? She asked if I was off work tonight? I said yea. Then she asks if I am going to gym today? I said yes. She said call me afterward your workout. I said "gotcha" She said talk to you later. I said see ya.
END RESULT: I didn't call her back and instead went on another date last night. I had a feeling she was going to manipulate the situation by teasing me with the naked comment, getting me to pursue her and then her blowing me off. Women like to torture guys. But I stayed strong and didn't call her and made definite plans with someone else.
Anyway, Im thinking of waiting 5 more days and calling her one last time to set something up. Or should I let her go?
Thanks.
1st date - high interest. No smartphone out. Lots of touching, flirting, kissing. She did show up late.
2nd date - she started to test me. (Told me she was having sex with a guy who looked like me, thought the bartender was cute, etc,) She also told me she wanted to be friends. I agreed with her. Lots of kissing, touching. She showed up 15 min late. She disappeared into bathroom for 20 minutes.
3rd date - She cancelled due to sinus infection. She also takes care of her ailing mother who is needs assistance.
3rd date reschedule - We went dancing, lots of touching, kissing, flirting and went back to my place for sex. She showed up 10 min late. She blew up my phone afterwards telling me how much she liked me and couldn't wait to see me again. She texted me nonstop for a week after we had sex. I was cool with her.
4th date - She arrived earlier than me at bar. (finally) I showed up a few min late.
When I walked into the bar she immediately grabbed my hand and we kissed. We sat at a table to watch the band. She told me the guitarist was cute and charming. She wouldn't stop holding my hands, rubbing my back, she bought us pizza, I bought us drinks, We didn't dance much and we didn't kiss. We flirted a little. Interest was slipping. Every time I pulled my hand away though she would grab it again and pull it back in. At 1:30am I walked her our to her car and asked her to come back to my place again. She said OK. Then she followed me home--then when she pulled up to my driveway she rolled down her window I cant stay and have to leave my mother woke up disoriented and I have to see her now! My sister is on her way too. If she gets there before me I will come back.
She sent me 5 texts later saying she couldn't back over and her mom was doing better. Hope I wasn't upset.
It was cruel for her to leave at 1:30am when we are supposed to be having sex. I kept my cool though with her and smiled and said ok, see ya.
Then she texts me more throughout the week.
I made plans with her again for Tuesday night and she said.."I have a long day tomorrow and if I am not tired I will call you by 4pm and let you know. But lets plan on me being there at your place!
I said, if you cant make definite plans then I wont make plans with you. She said "K"
Then the next day said didn't mean to be rude and I just like making definite plans based out of respect for each others time. She said ok great, and said the weather is getting great we need to get together. Then two days passes she texts me "have a great day at work." I replied thank you.
Then she disappears for 10 days, no more texts. My cell phone stops working too. I got a new phone.
I called her on Saturday and she answers(which was good) I said hi how have you been? She said good how are you?! I said my phone died a week ago and my text messaging stop working. Got a new phone. She said I haven't texted you, but I am the gym, standing here naked and just got out of tanning bed can you call me in a little while? I said..."I tell you what reach out to me if you want to get together in the next week or so" She said ok, then asks how I have been? She asked if I was off work tonight? I said yea. Then she asks if I am going to gym today? I said yes. She said call me afterward your workout. I said "gotcha" She said talk to you later. I said see ya.
END RESULT: I didn't call her back and instead went on another date last night. I had a feeling she was going to manipulate the situation by teasing me with the naked comment, getting me to pursue her and then her blowing me off. Women like to torture guys. But I stayed strong and didn't call her and made definite plans with someone else.
Anyway, Im thinking of waiting 5 more days and calling her one last time to set something up. Or should I let her go?
Thanks.
