"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purchase stock items for the girls

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Anyone here just hate buying things for their girls on special occasions?
Well I have an idea. Go to the store and buy a bunch of generic gifts and cards. In other words, stock pile them.

When the girl gets mad at you just open your box and pull out a trinket to shut her up. She will think you are the best guy ever and that you are always thinking about her.

If you are guy like me who does things at the last minute for his girl then this will help you. You won't feel bad about buying something for her because you never really bought it for her anyway.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So every time she gets mad you give her a gift. I think that sets a bad precedent.

-Grey Fox
 

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Originally posted by Grey Fox
So every time she gets mad you give her a gift. I think that sets a bad precedent.

-Grey Fox
not everytime. That would be a bad thing.
 

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WTF??? Giving a woman a gift when she's pissed off is like rewarding your dog for 5hitting on the carpet. She'll start 5hitting on the carpet when she wants a gift from you.

Also, buying gifts for you woman doesn't make her happy. If you focus on trying to make her happy all the time, you're just going to end up being miserable. It's HER job to make herself happy.
 

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Desdinova's right.

We are after all, a creature of habit..

Gifts are unnecessary. Be a man and calm her down forcefully. A girl in hysterics needs firm leadership from her man...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maybe I didn't explaim myself correctly.

What I mean is that when you forget to get something for her on a special occasion or you do it last miniute (because you're busy) girls get upset. When you give her the gift from your stock pile it will solve the problem. You can basically avoid thinking about her for the whole year.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by MacDiddy
Desdinova's right.

We are after all, a creature of habit..

Gifts are unnecessary. Be a man and calm her down forcefully. A girl in hysterics needs firm leadership from her man...
sometimes it is best just to ignore it rather then shut her up the hard way. It can be a reall pain in the ass to deal with a woman when she needs to be calmed down.
 

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yeah, with the stuff I've seen. Tell me about it :rolleyes:.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
WTF??? Giving a woman a gift when she's pissed off is like rewarding your dog for 5hitting on the carpet. She'll start 5hitting on the carpet when she wants a gift from you.
Heheh,..yeah just ask Kobe Bryant after he bought his wife that $4 Million ring after he hit it with that dishrag hoor in Colorado. The more you spend, the more it counts right? Heheh,..


Tomassi Rule of Gifts:
Never, ever, EVER, buy a woman a gift for any reason until you have been married for at least 1 year. This means NEVER buying a girlfriend anything (besides the occasional dinner and drinks) regardless of circumstance. Even when you are married, always treat gifts (and compliments) like dog treats or little rewards. There is no quicker way to devalue her respect of you than to regularly buy gifts for her. I've been married 8.5 years, trust me on this.
 

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WTF??? Giving a woman a gift when she's pissed off is like rewarding your dog for 5hitting on the carpet. She'll start 5hitting on the carpet when she wants a gift from you.
Absolutely, I totally agree with the reward and punishment principle. Applies to women as well (nice kitty, bad kitty)


sometimes it is best just to ignore it rather then shut her up the hard way. It can be a reall pain in the ass to deal with a woman when she needs to be calmed down.
Just walk away. DON'T give her any attention. You don't have to deal with it unless YOU are actually in the wrong.

Kaine
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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