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Pupils Dilate

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I read a post today stating that when a girl's pupil dilate when talking to you, they are highly interested in you. Is this something that all girls know about? Because I heard it's a natural thing that you cannot avoid.
 

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False.

Pupil's only dilate in reaction to light or lack there of.

Forgot exactly which order it works but there it is.
 

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That's not what I read! I'll try to explain this with logic. (PS: A good read will be Allan and Barbara's pease book on body language. Good manual for everyone, got me started 2 years ago, covers the basics, and it's funny too.)

To illustrate my point, first you must admit that:

The brain has a mirror... neuron. (Idk the name! :D )

Basicly what it does is that it mirrors what you see. Frequently.

That's why you mirror a smile or a yawn... :D

And second:
It is predefined in your brain that dilated pupils are more attractive then normal ones! Need an explination? Use google images and see for yourself!

Nice secret, eh? That's why people tend to like blue eyes... It's easier to notice the pupiles dilactate in them. Just a theory. :crazy:

So that is the explination why candle light dinners are a perfect atmosphere for romance!

Pupils dilactate from low light... And it makes you look nice!

And what if you are attracted to a girl and keep making EC?

She will mirror you... And her pupils will dilactate too!

Which will make you even more excited!

Don'te believe me?

Search for dilacted pupils and look at them for 1/2 mintues and look at yourself in a mirror. And notice your wide pupils!

Then look at non dilacted pupils... Yours will shink too!



A nice cycle! Nature helps us! :D

So they come from:
You're attracted.
You need more light. (In dark places.)
You're mirroring someone.

Effects:
You can see her IL. :D
You look sexy!
 

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I stand corrected!

As I just went to an eye website and looked this up and it said pupil's can dilate in addition to dark conditions by someone being aroused in some way either by a drug or otherwise.

So though I was wrong by conveying that attraction had no effect on pupils dilating it could also be that whoever originally made the post saying a girl he talked to must've been interested in him because her eyes dilated well it could also be true to say that maybe the bastard just had a huge head and cast a shadow on her face as he talked to her. :p :crackup:
 

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LMFAO! :crackup: :crackup:

Ahh, that was a nice one. :D
 

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It is a great indicator but do not always rely on it. With darker eyes, it can be much harder to tell if they are dilated, but if they are, it's a plus.
 

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The ol' doggy dinner bowl look ey. Cheers for that groovy ;)
 
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