"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey you guys, I have a quick situation and question. Today I was at school and this girl I was trying to get at and her friend dropped their pencil they were using. It rolled kinda by me but I was doing my own thing. They wanted me to pick it up for them but I said no cause I was tired of doing what other people can do for themselves. The girl got a lil attitude. Was I being a jerk or was I right to be like, "Yall can pick it up." ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that just seems kinda mean if anything. I could see if u said a funny comment, but it seemed like you gave them attitude first....
 
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I think it's kind of mean, personally. Nothing wrong with being respectful.
 
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If a girl drops her pencil in class, and she doesn't have to get out of her seat to get the pencil she should get it. But if you make someone get out of their seat to get something thats pushing it.

Example, if you are sitting right next to a girl and her pencil drops. She may ask you to get it, if its apparent she can do it her self, you can tease her. It might also be one of those tests or her trying to get your attention. If she doesn't ask you to pick it up, just let her get it herself.

So it wasn't mean if she was within arms reach, however if she had to get up to get it, you should have gotten it for her.
 
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I'm feeling kinda dumb. I basically looked like a jerk when I thought I was doin the right thing. I lost some major cool points with her.:down:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by 612_Da_Playa
I'm feeling kinda dumb. I basically looked like a jerk when I thought I was doin the right thing. I lost some major cool points with her.:down:
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ehh whatever. you gotta learn to lose before you can win......? right? hahah i just sorta put that one together.
 
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