"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Punishing bad behavior without rewarding her with attention?

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Visceral

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I remember reading that women crave male attention: it makes them feel important, sexy, wanted, and (they hope) is a prelude to things she'll enjoy. I also remember reading about the need to keep your woman in line by punishing anything you don't like, or else she'll walk all over you, as well as not letting anything she does faze you, as this gives her power over you.

I realized that these seem mutually exclusive. Punishment is a kind of attention - especially considering the drama it can (and often does) create - paradoxically rewarding her for her bad behavior, as well as a sign that she's gotten to you - weakening you in her eyes - both of which are bad and can even encourage her bad behavior.

My question is how can you make sure she never does the thing you don't like again without at the same time encouraging her to act out in order to get more attention, as well as avoiding allowing her to gain power through emotional manipulation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well, not if your punishment is freezing her out, or not doing something she enjoys, i don't know what kinda punishments you are using, but if its spanking and **** she likes, don't do it. I think you overanazlyzed this WAY too much
 
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