"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Punching haters in the face acceptable?

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dr0pxx

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Whats up guys, I had a situation where I was out with a girl and was joking around with a guy that store had just closed. I asked if they were drinking in the back,etccc Joking. A guy comes up and goes "funny" then eyes me. This made me mad.

Perhaps I am overreacting but I wanted to punch this guy in the face. Fuk these people, they shouldnt be able to do this socially, and should pay the consequences. I dont know. Maybe I am immature and overly aggressive?

lol

how do you deal w/ haters?

dr0p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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niceguydying

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Your post has me confused. Why did him saying"funny" to you and eyeballing you bother you so much? No, I am not hating just confused. You were obviously letting your personality shine through, that's all. Ever consider that he 1) Lacks personality or 2) Had a bad night and was ready to blow that popcorn stand? Or maybe both! No offense meant here, but tell more of the story in order to get more advice.

If it were me, I would be happy knowing I was out and about with a women instead of closing an establishment. Just my opinion and welcome to the forum!
 
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dr0pxx

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blah blah blah. I was just in a bad mood and not expecting it, you are right I shouldnt care. That is something that I will have to deal with on my own, as I am a physical kind of guy and a AFC, not a good combination ;)

thx for the help. sorry for the stupid post

dr0p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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everywomanshero

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Punching people gets you in jail.

Criminal records make you a janitor.

Janitor isn't exactly a DHV when you're 35.

Why give someone the power to wreck your life?

Just tell him you're not into guys, and say he's acting
creepy which would be true from what you've told me.
Why does he have to try so hard to win your approval?
 
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