"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Punching haters in the face acceptable?

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dr0pxx

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Whats up guys, I had a situation where I was out with a girl and was joking around with a guy that store had just closed. I asked if they were drinking in the back,etccc Joking. A guy comes up and goes "funny" then eyes me. This made me mad.

Perhaps I am overreacting but I wanted to punch this guy in the face. Fuk these people, they shouldnt be able to do this socially, and should pay the consequences. I dont know. Maybe I am immature and overly aggressive?

lol

how do you deal w/ haters?

dr0p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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niceguydying

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Your post has me confused. Why did him saying"funny" to you and eyeballing you bother you so much? No, I am not hating just confused. You were obviously letting your personality shine through, that's all. Ever consider that he 1) Lacks personality or 2) Had a bad night and was ready to blow that popcorn stand? Or maybe both! No offense meant here, but tell more of the story in order to get more advice.

If it were me, I would be happy knowing I was out and about with a women instead of closing an establishment. Just my opinion and welcome to the forum!
 
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dr0pxx

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blah blah blah. I was just in a bad mood and not expecting it, you are right I shouldnt care. That is something that I will have to deal with on my own, as I am a physical kind of guy and a AFC, not a good combination ;)

thx for the help. sorry for the stupid post

dr0p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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everywomanshero

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Punching people gets you in jail.

Criminal records make you a janitor.

Janitor isn't exactly a DHV when you're 35.

Why give someone the power to wreck your life?

Just tell him you're not into guys, and say he's acting
creepy which would be true from what you've told me.
Why does he have to try so hard to win your approval?
 
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