"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pumping muscles???

spider_007

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I was working on my arms yesturday and i noticed something. I did 3 sets with dumbells (30 pounds dumbells). When I was done I grabed a 15 lbs dumbell and did another set SLOWLY. Even tho I was lifting it with no effort, I felt my muscles expanding.

Does anybody use that as part of their traning.

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ALSO (while I got this thread) I've started eating LESS, MORE TIMES A DAY. I Feel tons better. I just eat enough to keep my self from getting hungry. I sugest it to everyone, even tho you might not be working out all the time. Smaller amounts of healthy food, 5-6 times a day, is the way to go.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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The so called "pump" has nothing to do with muscle hypertrophy, as you may have noticed its not permanant and will largly have resided the next day.
 

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I read somewhere that a good pump actually does help a lot since what it means is that theres a lot of blood flowing to the pumped muscle. This means that its getting a lot more nutrients etc than normal.

Ive also read, In the same article, that the reason why you should eat most after you workout is cause thats when youve got the most blood flow to the muscles so thats when they can get the most nutrients.

This is all from that magazine they send with your orders from bodybuilding.com so i guess its credible.
 

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yes that is credible. however, lifting for a mere pump without going to failure isnt going to do **** for you.

Once you hit failure with the max weight your doin for 8 reps or whatever you will want to lower the weight and bust out some more reps to pump the blood through the muscle. i usually do it after my last set for that exercise though.

for instance ill do..

bb curl 40lb x 10 (warmup
bb curl 50lb x 8 (warmup
bb curl 70 lb x 8
bb curl 70lb x 8
bb curl 75lb x 6-8 (whatever i can do, this was just from my last workout) I got 6.

Then ill lower the weight by like 40 percent and jsut pump out reps for the last set to get the blood flowing through nicely.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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