pulls out this "i have a bf" ****

[Crazy Asian]

I hung out with this girl 2 times before.
invited her over, got a movie going.
on the couch and basically was having sex with clothes on.
i mean we were all over each other and biting each other and tickling and sh1t.
I knew she has a bf, but I know she's cheated on her EX before.
i kiss her neck and start going for her lips, and she pulls this i have a bf sh1t?
I thought girls with bf's were supposed to be easier.

afterwords, she says " i'm sorry, i hope i didn't lead you on or anything"
wtf
did I just not attract her enough?
i doubt it cause she was on me like glue when we hung out before and on the couch.

I don't really care about this girl, but it bothers me that I don't know why she stopped me.
any ideas?

 

[Allurre]

Guilt ridden bro. Personally, I wouldn't mess with a girl that has a man.

But... if you wanted to kept things going, you should've just said "Hey, I didn't ask", and continued onwards.

 

[mtlwlu]

or "I dont mind Im not the jealous type..."

 

[Klark Kent]

its a test....

more than likely u fell into a trap or u came off too wussy for her...

next time she throws that out u ALWAYS have to have a comeback!

her:"I have a BF"
u:"I have a goldfish!"
her: "wut?"
u: "u have a bf, i have a goldfish!" ........"What? O WAIT i just thought we were naming random things that dont matter!"

if she dusnt laugh then she has no moral meaning on this planet...

 

[KontrollerX]

"i kiss her neck and start going for her lips, and she pulls this i have a bf sh1t?"

Here's what you do to get what you want...

Her: We better stop I have a boyfriend!
You: You're right this is a bad idea, you better go, I wouldn't want you to hurt your boyfriend, I'm sure he's a good guy.

Then despite her protests to stay you keep insisting calmly and politely that she leave.

She'll then have a huge meltdown of you vs. the boyfriend inside of her head and who she wants more and if she quickly answers the question that its you she wants she'll stay and you'll both continue where you left off which will lead to sex.

Or...

She will leave but continue to think about you and fantasize about you and how nice and beta and nonthreatening to you that you've painted her boyfriend out to be by speaking so well of him. She'll multiply all that you said about him that indicates he's a nice guy AFC with her own negative thoughts about him and then she'll begin to be more drawn in your direction ie the direction of the mysterious guy who apparently is so confident in himself he didn't get mad about her denying him sex but instead pushed her back to the arms of her boyfriend whom she's beginning to not be so sure about wanting as much anymore as the mysterious guy that being you just doesn't seem to be as needy and obsessed with her as her current boyfriend.

In short she will begin to want to capture your heart and make you obsessively in love with her because of how nonchalant you are about sending her back to her boyfriend when she didn't want to get it on with you.

By winning your heart she'll prove her own attractiveness as a woman.

"I thought girls with bf's were supposed to be easier."

They are.

Just do what I tell you.

Just make sure that whenever she blue balls you and stops the enjoyable pleasurable activities you two are getting up to that you appear to honor her position on that and so much so that you insist that she leave and go back to her boyfriend and not ruin a good thing.

I know on the surface doing that seems counter productive to your goals but it really isn't. Its psychological warfare.

She will begin to want you for carrying yourself in this way.

She also won't be able to play the "you're just mad because I won't have sex with you card" because you will put on your best sincerity act and make it out like you just want whats best for her and whats best for her is for her and her boyfriend to have a strong healthy relationship.

Pushing her more towards the boyfriend and away from you is exactly what will put her heart and emotions more with you in the long run.