"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pulling girls hair... good or bad?

Not Quite There

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for some reason, i've started doing this a lot lately when i'm getting frisky after a drink or 2.

not like pulling it so it hurts, but curling it round my fingers and pulling them in for a kiss etc

i guess its quite a controlling thing to do, so i think girls would like it, just wondering and what people reckon to it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yea they like that ****. One time one girl was like "pull it harder, harder harder!!" im just like wtf thinking i was just about to rip her ****ing head off....some girls are nutcases, she wanted me to bite really hard on some really privite places too....haha
 

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Yeah, most girls I have been with love to have their hair pulled before and especially during sex. You can really get a girl wet by sitting them on your lap (this is before any clothes are off), kiss on their neck and gently pull their head back using the back of their hair. Grab a handfull and pull back a bit then soften up. Then repeat all while sucking and kissing on their neck. It drives them completely wild.

After a couple minutes bring your free hand in and start working on her stomach, moving up to one of her breasts. It's magic!
 

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I saw a bumper sticker on some girl's car that said:

"If your riding my a$$ you better be pulling my hair":D
 
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