"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pulling girls from facebook etc.

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This is how I have recently hoepfully pulled a girl from facebook

My reason for adding her was a "suggested friend" I played ****y+funny and added value to myself by saying I was lucky and that.

Got her number but told her she had to wait for mine(gave her a riddle).

Built rapport with playful teasing.

Took the conversation to a sexual level(she loved it, she even wanted me to go on cam one time, i didn't decline, but i went from mobile msn to pc msn so it was liek forgotten about, but we got really kinky together).

Told me she was going to have sex soon and was asking If i was interested, I accepted of course.

She is also the one to start talking to me on facebook and msn.

Things are going good, and i told her when her moods strikes you know who you want to text.

Now I'm leaving it, she has to wait until she has a free house and isn't doing anything, she gets home schooled for about 4 hours at random times.
So I'm not sure where to go apart from leaving it, no texts of couse. What do you guys think?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah it's fine for me. She is about a 7/8. Great legs!!!
Is alright if I leave it, the balls in her court , and just waitning for her to text call. I told myself patience is the key. Not sure if I should still talk to her on msn and that aswell?
I also got another girl wohs interested in my, and she wants me to defiantely go to some reunion and i can get her to do anything i want in a sexual way before and after i actually go lol. So that should be good.
 
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Right we both shown interested, dirty etc. She likes me, I like her. She horny, so am I. I say text me when her house is free, I know it's not free alot. But what do I do? Just waiiiittt? I really got to seal the deal somehow. i was even thinking showing mine on webcam(it's nice and big enough lol) and seeing if that gets her over the last step.
 
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if you're talking about your junk then :nono:

just keep her attraction and interest high man. trust me it can drive a person crazy to know they're almost there and about to get it but just don't know exactly what they'll get or what it'll be like

you don't need to show her everything beforehand y'know. just imply and refer to what you got and should get her even more up for it :D

keep her chasing you
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Please tell me you've met this girl in person before. Pulling girls online that you dont know and then meeting them in person can go in a veryyyy bad direction. Just be careful and don't let yourself get played or emotionally attached.

And from what it sounds like, this chick hasnt even known you for that long and probably hasnt met you in person before and shes already asking to have sex. That right there is a HUGE red flag. Trust me, this chick is a MAJOR slvt, so just get whatever ass you can and dont take it any further.
 
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yeah I crack jokes about it being long, nice etc. I continue to get sexual and that. I'm thinking of taking a day off from not coming online so she can't speak to me, I'm not sure blocking or ignoring is any good?

Shes seen me. I was thinking about meeting her anyway before hand, but if we get straight to the kinky that's all sweet.
And yeah man, I'm not getting attached or anything lol.
 
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The girl what's really sexual is still interested. So she text me last night, and sent me another text when i didn't reply to the first, so we texted for a bit, we talked, talked a bit dirty like we always day. We both swap dirty jokes get sexual with each other have been for about a week.

She text me saying she wants me because im so good(at sex) and she asked me if she "could jump in the shower" with me(because i said i was having one), then i replied like "yeah baby I like doing it more than once i hope can u lol" and said "sure i can tower over u(she doesnt like completely wet, makeup runs etc) she trying to trying to qualify herself with me earlier, saying she looked awful all wet, I accepted it and showed her it doenst matter for me). Then she never replied.

Now things have been good, interest and attraction high, she might of run out of credit, fell asleep, or her mum made her(she normally goes offline from msn about 11).
Now over the weekend she said i could come round and asked what day was best, I said tues and wed, and told her to let me know at 3, she was happy and going along with it.

Now do i just leave it cold, I really feel like texting her again, but then I'm thinking i should wait. maybe speak to her on msn tonight if she doesnt text today, or leaving it to wed if she never invites me round.

What do you guys think?
 
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Yeah would . But if can go straight to hers that be fine. I don't think this is blown though. She wouldn't go from 100% interested to like none.
And plus we both have only a couple of days we could of meet
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fvcking grow some balls and stop waiting for her to make the move. Take it yourself! You're investing way too much just because she made a flimsy deal to have sex with you. However, you're not going to get any sex from her by waiting around for her to call and getting blue balls. Take her out somewhere on a date, initiate the contact! Then escalate towards sex. Don't rely on her making the moves.
 
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