"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pulling blondes,harder to do?

Tazman

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I think it's for the same reason that people find blue/green eyes to be "more" attractive then brown. Brown hair and eyes are VERY common among many ethnicities. If blond hair were a common trait it wouldn't be so sought after. Not to mention the fact that it's a trait that is only natural for caucasian women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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themanwithnoname

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rarely have i ever met a blonde woman who is not outgoing, sassy, giggly, some men out there find that attractive, i get annoyed by them, who cares.
 

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Limiting beliefs and improper generalizing aside.....


I've only ever met ONE smart blond.

And dear God, is that a treasure to behold.
 

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In my personal experience, natural blondes are no more or less difficult to pick up than natural brunettes to pick up at a club.

The one's that are harder to 'pull' are the bottle blondes - you know, the Paris Hilton wannabes. They originally had brown hair but dyed it blonde, and got a really bad tan, as a way to seek attention and gain things like money. Those girls are usually typical AWs and aren't worth anyone's time even looking at.
 

Ricky

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Exactly.

Those sorry fake tan blondes don't even turn me on anymore. It's like I have a natural aversion to them.

Then again I go for the girl next door look now way more than the girl that thinks shes "hot"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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